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Jin took Suu's memories away, that's really not something that can be argued about, it happened blatantly throughout the coarse of the reading. one obvious example was when Suu went to the library to steal that ancient book, then revealed to Jin that he knew he was the crown prince. Suu wasn't supposed to know that he was food for Saharah. hence, memory loss.

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/where_the_dragon_s_rain_falls/nto/iur_chapter-124/pg-15/
Ahhm so memory loss is just a side effect of treatment? Then where did people get the idea of Jin gaslighting Suu?