Nothing Really About The Manga Itself

Daemon February 7, 2021 5:15 pm

But my own little preference~ I find it much more romantic when a character says 'I want you', as opposed to 'I need you', because that implies that they'd choose their partner willingly instead of being unfairly influenced ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
Whaddya guys think?

Responses
    uravitybabe February 7, 2021 7:27 pm

    i agree! i appreciate the sentiment and still find it cute but the phrase "i need you" makes me a bit uncomfortable because it makes me feel like they're becoming dependent of their partner and i think there's a difference between depending on your partner and being dependent of them in your life, yk? idk if i'm getting my point across, i'm not very good at explaining myself,,

    Daemon February 7, 2021 7:52 pm
    i agree! i appreciate the sentiment and still find it cute but the phrase "i need you" makes me a bit uncomfortable because it makes me feel like they're becoming dependent of their partner and i think there's ... uravitybabe

    Oh don't worry I gotchu!(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ I Need You is a very co-dependent phrase, implying that there's something really toxic and unhealthy in your relationship whereas I Want You is the I Love You, I Choose You version of things, amirite?

    FUJOSHIBISS February 8, 2021 3:30 am

    Idk to me, want is like desire to have something like when you buy stuff just because you want it because it looks good/interesting but NEED is like, you just need it. It's something you just HAVE TO HAVE. Y'know what I mean? I honestly like the word "need" more than "want"

    Daemon February 8, 2021 9:08 am
    Idk to me, want is like desire to have something like when you buy stuff just because you want it because it looks good/interesting but NEED is like, you just need it. It's something you just HAVE TO HAVE. Y'kn... FUJOSHIBISS

    But, no one actually truly needs another person, you get what I'm saying? Everyone we know and love will one day leave us and we gotta move cause that's just life. Despite knowing that, saying I Want You means you're acknowledging that future loss but you'll still choose them. It implies agency, while I Need You takes away agency and just seems like something forced and inescapable. But, ofc we all have our own preferences so you liking I Need You is totally fair! For me, I Want You is just more impactful, that's all.

    Big Schlong February 10, 2021 7:52 pm

    I'm just hoping that it's a translation error but kajdsgafsgskdjfghs( ̄∇ ̄")

    Kagenoiz February 17, 2021 4:07 am
    But, no one actually truly needs another person, you get what I'm saying? Everyone we know and love will one day leave us and we gotta move cause that's just life. Despite knowing that, saying I Want You means ... Daemon

    But i think Akira says "I need you" because he feels lonely without the other guy, like he knows he loves his seme, and now that he has found someone to pass his time with he doesnt want to lose him and its an important part in his life. Idk if i got my point through, i hope i did

    Daemon February 17, 2021 4:24 pm
    But i think Akira says "I need you" because he feels lonely without the other guy, like he knows he loves his seme, and now that he has found someone to pass his time with he doesnt want to lose him and its an ... Kagenoiz

    I did get what you meant, but I still stand by my comment which says that no one actually needs another person. We humans are social creatures who need the company of others, but it doesn't have to be anyone in particular. 'I Need You' is just a false statement, whereas 'I Want You' is true and much more romantic imo.

    Kagenoiz February 17, 2021 8:52 pm
    I did get what you meant, but I still stand by my comment which says that no one actually needs another person. We humans are social creatures who need the company of others, but it doesn't have to be anyone in... Daemon

    I also get you, but I think it depends in the way u use the word, or the meaning you give it, imo. But I also agree witg u