Responses
spoiler from what happened int the first life: from what I've heard, he was forced to do that to her because of his father but that doesn't change the fact that he did it in the first place so (in the first life) the son grows up and learns the truth and because he's powerful with the spirit 's power, he tortures the father like what the father did to the mother

I don't know anymore...
It's seem like I can't bring myself to hate him. I know he mistreated her but the way I see now it's just that he is a adoring father and caring also. Please tell me the past is a misunderstanding ʕ´•ᴥ•`ʔ