I doubt it is non-con

notTexas June 9, 2021 4:20 pm

People seeing it as non-con, but this one I'm pretty sure it's just a cultural thing. My Chinese boyfriend was also like this at first and we had to determine a safe word. Heard it was pretty common in Asian culture to be like "nooo".

Not gonna lie, I was feeling bad at first, like I stopped everything. He just stared at me and asking me why I stopped. Can't you guess boy? ( ̄∇ ̄")

Responses
    ROTTEN.GIRL June 9, 2021 4:37 pm

    Yes! Most asian countries if not all really say those words, most commonly when someone offer you food but you get shy then the person who offer will push you to get some again(and again) lmao

    Spare My Ankles ✨ June 9, 2021 4:41 pm

    thats what i was thinking because i see it so often in bl when they say "no" and "wait" and they dont stop. at first i was thinking the authors just romanticized rape (some do, dont get me wrong) but then i realized how normalized it is so i thought maybe that was just things that turn each other on and its some hidden established rule or something.

    communicate with your partners first though !!!!

    ROTTEN.GIRL June 9, 2021 5:16 pm
    thats what i was thinking because i see it so often in bl when they say "no" and "wait" and they dont stop. at first i was thinking the authors just romanticized rape (some do, dont get me wrong) but then i rea... Spare My Ankles ✨

    So true btw i like your username

    Spare My Ankles ✨ June 9, 2021 5:22 pm
    So true btw i like your username ROTTEN.GIRL

    thank you bestie