No. He just don't care about this hypothetical child, he just want this child as a mean to keep YeoDam by his side.
That being said it doesn't mean he would be capable of hurting the child once he's born. It's one thing to be cruel to an imaginary stranger, it's another thing to actually do it once you have a living thing that look like your love in front of you.
I'm surprised no one sees that as a massive red flag. God i can't see this as a romance, this reads as a horror story to me.
There is no argument that change “breaking a child’s legs” from being a highly reprehensible, disgusting and fucking evil thing. Come on!
Now it turns out he might remember the past, so literally people saying "he's completely different from that other version of him" is wrong. Lmao. Can't wait for the shitty redemption arc.
yess i just wanna know that when he said that was he serious? or just joking?
like we often say die to our friends but do not mean it ...i was asking if he was just joking or he is still a toxic shit?
Like I said, he may mean it now but that don't mean he would actually be able to do it. Have you never been set on something and very determined to do it but when confronted to the actual situation it suddenly have real weight and you can't do it at all ?
You guys are talking like he already broke this non-existent child's leg.
And no, he don't remember his past life, he dream about it, said nightmares that he can't remember.
He murdered his child in his previous life just to get the MC's attention, his logic hasn't changed, Jins are born sociopaths this is a 100% reasonable conclusion to their problem solving. Your argument is like people who say "Have you never done a bad thing at all in your life?" yes everyone has but that bad thing wasn't murdering a child.
Those dreams are memories, the very fact that this author is hinting at it means he will come to remember Lmao.
ohh ok ...ik he don't remeber that
It’s pretty absurde that you defend this behaviour of his. If you are okay with him having this style of being, well, then that’s on you. It’s not something I ever could get behind.
Exactly!
I asked if you never had a moment when you were very determined to do something but couldn't. You chose to see that as a negative thing but it could be deciding you're gonna tell your crush how you feel but once they're in front of you, you can't. Deciding to speak in front of a crowd but getting cold feet just before getting on stage. Wanting to stand up for someone but once you could, you can't seem to find the courage. Deciding to abandon someone but the moment you see their face you suddenly regret even thinking that. Anything.
What I mean is thinking and saying you'll do something isn't the same as actually doing it. And saying or thinking you'll do something don't mean you will be able to.
It doesn't matter if it's killing a spider or killing a child those two facts are still true.
You are judging him for a past life and assuming he think the same as then when he isn't the same person at present time. The biggest difference between the two life is that in the first one he didn't understand humans nor how they worked. He never had any interest in learning about them and by consequence was an abusive lover.
This time around since his only way to be in contact with YeoDam was to act as a human child he was forced to learn the basics about humans, meaning he understand how fragile they are and how they need to be treated to be happy which wasn't the case before.
This is a fundamental change that you are ignoring.
As long as he don't show cruelty to humans in this life you shouldn't judge him for crimes that don't exist anymore.
His nightmares are irrelevant, he may remember in the future but it's not the case at present so pretending he his the same because he may remember at some point is just you wanting to hate him and not an actual argument.
It's absurd to you because you can't separate his first life to his second. You're blowing what he said out of proportion because of a life he don't remember and didn't experience this time around.
Yes it would be fucked up if he actually did it, but you are all acting like it's set in stone that he'll do it. Saying and doing isn't the same thing, and desperate talk is not the equivalent of planning something.
No, I’m judging him from how he’s being in this life. And I find him lacking. So far, he has beaten his servants bloody for Yeo Dam skipping a meal. The servants were afraid of him so we can’t just say that the whole thing wasn’t a big deal. He has thrown a dagger/sword at what he thought always a servant, for doing their job and serving him, that would have struck them in the chest. He is going to make a child with the MC to keep him with him. A child he said he doesn’t care for nor want, it’s just a tool. He is planning of injuring said child to force MC to stay with him if he ever tries to leave. All of this is from THIS life. It’s not cute. It’s not romantic. How could it possible be? I was rooting for him at the beginning, but this is all just too much.
Yeah but have he injured a child in this life ? The way he treat other Jins don't really matter as they all think it's normal and the injuries are as consequential as scratches for them. And they all expect him to lead them, not care for them. They follow him purely for his strength not his kindness. What matter is how he treat humans and children since adult Jins is just a question of different culture, different pain level and different care about injuries.
Yes the child is a tool, it's not cute or romantic. I never said it was. It's sad and tragic. But does it matter if his father instinct kicks in the moment he lay his eyes on him ? If he becomes an overprotective and dotting father and accept to let go of YeoDam to take care of the child ?
I don't get why defending that him saying he'll break the child's leg don't mean he'll do it became me defending it was romantic in your mind.
The jins were shaking in fear of him. The violence is a big deal to them, no matter what they say out loud. And if you don’t see that planning to use a child as a tool and something to hurt to get someone else to do what they want, makes that person a BAD person, then I really have nothing left to say to you.
ok about breaking his child leg i think it would not affect him cause he is going to be a jin thats why he said that with ease?