I second this 100%. He is young and naïve. He should have been properly explained what S&M was. Plus, people will understand soon that he has another serious reason for being so scared of sex and intimacy. I like that the seme shows empathy and patience tho. We could've had the typical macho seme who forces things on his lover without caring abt the rest until he miraculously falls in love. This one here is mature, professional and comprehensive from the beginning. It's hard to imagine it so early in the story but I am more and more confident he'll save the uke from his past trauma. I like the writing and the plot so far. I hope it won't be ruined like so many other BL out there
well said!
Sometimes I feel like we're getting pushed more into having to be into S&M and it's getting really annoying. Like I don't want to be degraded and kicked in face just to have a damn climax
I mean this is why you shouldn't do S&M play if your partner isn't into it and wasn't even informed of what the his sexual preference were or even what a particular play was about... felt like "playing with a little kid" yeah maybe try to talk to him what this is about?? Not everyone knows about S&M play bro...
Also I feel bad for the uke and it makes me sad that even the people in the comments can't sympathise with him... maybe it's me because I can relate since I have this need of approval from seniors/adultier adult and I have cried in the bathroom a lot of times when I get badly scolded at work for no reason other than I feel ashemed that they are disappointed in me. Plus even his coworkers say the seme is really tough on him, I think he has all the right to be upset, it's only that some people show how they're upset in different ways