yall feeling too comfortable blaming natori

hachi leaf November 13, 2023 4:59 pm

the amount of likes these comments are getting too. ohhh yall are f*cked in the head. im sure 90% of yall would also want answers from your bf and know more about your bf when he's this closed off. im not saying im just 100% putting the blame on seo and none of it on natori but if yall are gonna blame natori then yall also better shit on seo for not opening up. yall keep saying natori is the reason why problems happen but never the fact that seo always KEEPS things from seo. stay away from someone? why?? do yall just want him to blindly follow like a dumb dog without an explanation? for fuck's sake.

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    Dearmyvkook November 13, 2023 5:30 pm

    Omg finally someone who said this. I cant understand why eberyone is blaming natori wjen its seo whos so fcking closed off like a mysterious entity

    hachi leaf November 13, 2023 5:39 pm
    Omg finally someone who said this. I cant understand why eberyone is blaming natori wjen its seo whos so fcking closed off like a mysterious entity Dearmyvkook

    i mean i do get why people are getting annoyed by natori but they're literally acting like seo did nothing wrong PLUS ignoring the fact that the brother is a weirdo like are we really gonna blame natori for getting taken advantage of? that's peak victim blaming

    himeotaku November 15, 2023 3:50 pm

    I think it depends on an individual. I don't confront my bf about his problems. Like, if he wants to tell me, then he'll tell me. But, I'm an introvert. So I was not gonna go make conversation with other people to pry about his business.

    hachi leaf November 15, 2023 5:59 pm
    I think it depends on an individual. I don't confront my bf about his problems. Like, if he wants to tell me, then he'll tell me. But, I'm an introvert. So I was not gonna go make conversation with other people... himeotaku

    that's understandable but seo is literally commanding natori to not meet his family in private. the least he could do is give context as to why he never said anything. again, why would anyone just assume that the brother is weird just from that statement alone. if he really wanted to prevent this from happening, he should've explained - not just give barely half the truth lol

    himeotaku November 16, 2023 3:52 am
    that's understandable but seo is literally commanding natori to not meet his family in private. the least he could do is give context as to why he never said anything. again, why would anyone just assume that ... hachi leaf

    Cause they need to keep the drama going lmao
    And sometimes, there are people out there with bad communication skills.

    hachi leaf November 16, 2023 4:32 pm
    Cause they need to keep the drama going lmao And sometimes, there are people out there with bad communication skills. himeotaku

    im sure this arc is so seo could open up HOPEFULLY cause this problem has always been the root lol there's no diversity in the issues at all

    himeotaku November 17, 2023 6:02 pm
    im sure this arc is so seo could open up HOPEFULLY cause this problem has always been the root lol there's no diversity in the issues at all hachi leaf

    They're gonna make up with sex anyways lmao it doesn't matter whether there is diversity or not

    hachi leaf November 17, 2023 6:27 pm
    They're gonna make up with sex anyways lmao it doesn't matter whether there is diversity or not himeotaku

    oh my god i hope they finally talk it out here cause god

    Aie November 18, 2023 12:33 pm

    Sure, sure, no one should blame Natori for being played but should anyone blame Seo for not opening up? Doesn’t he have the right, as a human being, to remain silent about personal, private things? He does, he does. Just as it wasn’t cool for Seo to get angry at Natori, the victim, for Natori to blame Seo for not opening up and make it the reason why what happened was Seo’s fault was also not cool at all. Natori is not a child and Seo is not his guardian. Natori as an adult, should have had the common sense to put up a guard somehow against someone he had just met even if it was his boyfriend’s brother. I mean, at that point, to Seo, it was his brother, but to Natori it was basically a stranger with the label of “lover’s brother”. Going inside a stranger’s house and getting black out drunk just cuz the convo’s going great… is Natori really not to blame for these two things? Sure, for getting his picture taken, it was 100% the brother being a psycho and just not normal in the head. Seo’s only fault was getting angry at Natori. Periodt.

    If a relationship demands one to lay everything bare no matter how uncomfortable you might be or no matter how personal it is or how far away it is from your relationship, I’m sure the word for that is toxic. If the secret is something that involves the two in the relationship, the relationship itself, or the other person in a relationship, then that’s only what a proper relationship should demand to be laid out in the open. Other things are the privilege of those in the relationship to share or know about.

    Or at least, that’s what my take is on this fight.

    hachi leaf November 18, 2023 2:10 pm
    Sure, sure, no one should blame Natori for being played but should anyone blame Seo for not opening up? Doesn’t he have the right, as a human being, to remain silent about personal, private things? He does, h... Aie

    lil bro i literally said if people are gonna blame natori then they should blame both tf happened to reading?