that's understandable but seo is literally commanding natori to not meet his family in private. the least he could do is give context as to why he never said anything. again, why would anyone just assume that the brother is weird just from that statement alone. if he really wanted to prevent this from happening, he should've explained - not just give barely half the truth lol
Sure, sure, no one should blame Natori for being played but should anyone blame Seo for not opening up? Doesn’t he have the right, as a human being, to remain silent about personal, private things? He does, he does. Just as it wasn’t cool for Seo to get angry at Natori, the victim, for Natori to blame Seo for not opening up and make it the reason why what happened was Seo’s fault was also not cool at all. Natori is not a child and Seo is not his guardian. Natori as an adult, should have had the common sense to put up a guard somehow against someone he had just met even if it was his boyfriend’s brother. I mean, at that point, to Seo, it was his brother, but to Natori it was basically a stranger with the label of “lover’s brother”. Going inside a stranger’s house and getting black out drunk just cuz the convo’s going great… is Natori really not to blame for these two things? Sure, for getting his picture taken, it was 100% the brother being a psycho and just not normal in the head. Seo’s only fault was getting angry at Natori. Periodt.
If a relationship demands one to lay everything bare no matter how uncomfortable you might be or no matter how personal it is or how far away it is from your relationship, I’m sure the word for that is toxic. If the secret is something that involves the two in the relationship, the relationship itself, or the other person in a relationship, then that’s only what a proper relationship should demand to be laid out in the open. Other things are the privilege of those in the relationship to share or know about.
Or at least, that’s what my take is on this fight.

the amount of likes these comments are getting too. ohhh yall are f*cked in the head. im sure 90% of yall would also want answers from your bf and know more about your bf when he's this closed off. im not saying im just 100% putting the blame on seo and none of it on natori but if yall are gonna blame natori then yall also better shit on seo for not opening up. yall keep saying natori is the reason why problems happen but never the fact that seo always KEEPS things from seo. stay away from someone? why?? do yall just want him to blindly follow like a dumb dog without an explanation? for fuck's sake.