If you want that then read fluff and the likes, not toxic BL. This subgenre is made for toxicity especially.
Most stories here have a quick summary, reading that can help you see if its gonna be toxic. Scroll down a bit more to the comment and topic section and you'll see what kind of MCs the story have. You can even look at the tag.
You really should not expect an uke with self respect in a BL with psychological tag and the cover alone already give off clues.
Honestly, fair.
Way too many BL stories contain rape or dubcon and/or romantasize toxic relationships.
In the case of this manwha specifically, it was very much intentended to be toxic. It really should have the "psychological" tag.
Nevertheless, wanting to read something less toxic and triggering is understandable.
If you want some recommendations with healthy relationships/ gentle seme / strong uke I suggest:
"Sign" (completed) - about a deaf cafe owner and his part timer. It's both fluff and smut.
"Love Shuttle" (completed) - an omegaverse story but without all the rape and dubcon that's usually found in this sub-genre. MC is an omega with buff build and a strong mentality.
"Here You Are" (completed) - Chinese shounen ai (there is some implied action, but nothing explicit) about two college students. One is openly gay and occasionally people try to harass him but he stands up for himself and never lets them win.
"Guiding Hazard" (ongoing) - a guide verse story without the toxicity usually found in the subgenre.
"Our Sunny Days" (ongoing) - about a young military man who retires to the countryside when his ex-girlfriend suddenly trusts a baby in his arms and takes off. Here he meets the tsundere village chief, who at first seems like a rude brute, but is actually a soft-hearted and gentle man.
"Love Plan" (completed) - short, sweet and smutty. Seme is a bit manipulative at first, but only because he's afraid the uke won't like him. The uke is also not a doormat.
I've been meaning to make a collection list for this exact category, actually. Just need to get around to it... ╮(￣▽￣)╭
The reco here is what you should read if you are looking for BLs with a healthy relationships not BLs like Passion
I need a BL where the uke has a selfrespect!FGS.! How can it be that all the ukes stay with the shitties manwhore seme who treats them like shittttttt ┑(￣Д ￣)┍. Like bish wtf