For one thing, they aren't related.
Second, they aren't family or anything(like cousins or something), third is that there's no sibling dynamics and fourth, their parents' problem(that got resolved) is none of the kids' business. In the first place, her beta dad has a don't give a fuck attitude about his husband's ex wife(?)/husband. Even attended the wedding smugly, so I doubt he'd ever have a problem cus the beef is all gone and i bet it would stroke his beta ego if his daughter hook up with his husband's ex's daughter. Meanwhile, her alpha father is way too chill and never brought up how weird it is his husband attended his ex's wedding.
At this point, idk what is supposed to be "weird" about their crush. Maybe there could be drama from judgmental people outside the family in the know of their past drama but fuck em, it's not their right to judge. In the end, it's just an innocent childhood crush.

Fym high schooler and middle schooler.... Why are we ignoring that rn?