I get where you're coming from but at the same time, she got ghosted without knowing whatever happened or why he ghosted her. So all feelings she had were just bottled away with no where to go. Yes it's been 2 years, but you never know until you experienced something similar. All those bottled up feelings resurface n u can't help it but it's not necessarily bc she wanted to think about him. I don't think it's unhealthy, more like there were many unresolved issues and conflicts that they never got to talk about because he ghosted her.
That’s why she should’ve got therapy or find other methods that aren’t sex as an outlet, because realistically if this wasn’t a story 7/10 the guy never comes back so people have had to cope and move on without any solution. What if the male lead was never introduced to the fl ? She really would’ve still been living constantly thinking and stressing over something she could not have controlled which is unhealthy. It’s harsh but sometimes you got have to learn to let go and not hold on
This is so good, don’t get me wrong and Ik she has trauma especially since the ex just called her so feelings sort of resurfaced but we’re about 40 chaps in and from the 1st few chaps it was mentioned that her ex ghosted her about a year ago so now it’s eventually going to be pushing 2 years and it’s like…..girl move one. She thinks about the ex every chapter, my biggest fear is a man who did me dirty being in my head all the time. It’s unhealthy actually