I mean- whys is this such a big deal

Purky September 24, 2025 6:38 pm

I want them to switch cuz i fw short tops and switch couples, and bcuz i never got how topping and bottoming in the bl genre being set in stone never changing law
Its always been very odd to me
Like the average gay couple switches atleast once in their relationship even if they have a preferred sex-pos

Responses
    Yumisery September 25, 2025 11:06 am

    it’s not a law but there are stories specifically for tht.Yall want every story to be the same but everybody likes different things that’s why there are stories with different relationship dynamics.If you would like to read a yaoi/bl that envoles switching there are tags for that and plenty of stories.Im not trying to hate or be mean btw im just sayin people have preferences thats why there’s so many different halos with different sexual plots etc this just might not be for you

    Purky September 25, 2025 4:19 pm
    it’s not a law but there are stories specifically for tht.Yall want every story to be the same but everybody likes different things that’s why there are stories with different relationship dynamics.If you w... Yumisery

    "want everything to be the same"
    The bl genre has mostly heteronormative set in stone sex positions
    Ppl who want something different (switching) don't want the "same thing" since switching isn't even popular to begin with
    And no, there aren't plenty of stories like this.
    At the end of the day this shouldn't at all matter since it's smut and sex positions don't change someone's role in a relationship its just fictional characters having fun and ppl are allowed to comment on a piece of media.

    Yumisery September 26, 2025 12:25 am
    "want everything to be the same"The bl genre has mostly heteronormative set in stone sex positions Ppl who want something different (switching) don't want the "same thing" since switching isn't even popular to ... Purky

    the point is there are stories on here made specifically for you so it’s annoying when people are enjoying a manga and people are in the comments complaining about a story the author wanted mind you.Like all i’m saying is the complaining is so unnecessary and all that energy could go into finding list,recs,etc for switch yaois

    Piwi September 26, 2025 3:53 am
    the point is there are stories on here made specifically for you so it’s annoying when people are enjoying a manga and people are in the comments complaining about a story the author wanted mind you.Like all ... Yumisery

    Its not that deep dawg

    Yumisery September 26, 2025 6:59 pm
    Its not that deep dawg Piwi

    i never said it was it wasn’t tht deep to respond to me but u did

    Elliot October 1, 2025 4:06 am
    the point is there are stories on here made specifically for you so it’s annoying when people are enjoying a manga and people are in the comments complaining about a story the author wanted mind you.Like all ... Yumisery

    Okay give me 50 reccomendations of switch couple bls that are atleast 20 chapters, because i could give you 100 examples right now of non switch bl rep couples that have the same role of top and bottom for like 45 chapters+.

    Elliot October 1, 2025 4:07 am
    the point is there are stories on here made specifically for you so it’s annoying when people are enjoying a manga and people are in the comments complaining about a story the author wanted mind you.Like all ... Yumisery

    Okay give me 50 reccomendations of switch couple bls that are atleast 20 chapters, because i could give you 100 examples right now of non switch bl rep couples that have the same role of top and bottom for like 45 chapters+. Since you are so confident that people wanting switch rep should just shut the fuck up (we apparently have enough bls to read with switxh couples) it shouldnt be a problem for you to find any.

    Abuzada October 1, 2025 5:02 am
    the point is there are stories on here made specifically for you so it’s annoying when people are enjoying a manga and people are in the comments complaining about a story the author wanted mind you.Like all ... Yumisery

    Heyy you seem to know lot of stories with switch couples. Please recommend

    reygrey666 October 1, 2025 5:31 am

    I think that switch stuff are normalized in western comic. And yea I agreed the average gay couple irl did switch once in awhile, but I never associated the asian bl comic with gay community irl. Almost every asian bl author/artist marketed their works for fujodanshi community, not for gay community. Western bl comic artist r different tho, made their works with LGBTQ community in mind, so switch scene are everywhere in their market

    Elliot October 1, 2025 5:53 am
    Heyy you seem to know lot of stories with switch couples. Please recommend Abuzada

    I actually dont know a lot, which is my point sadly. But heres a few:
    - Zero at the bone
    - Pygmalion
    - Thirst
    - neko x neko
    - playtime with hakdo
    - like a tidal wave
    And theres one called "Dark Heaven" but i personally tried reading it and was bored but everyone else says its super good! This is pretty much all the switch bls i know so i wpuld love for the smartass guy i replied to, to give me my 50 reccomendations glad i could maybe help?

    Abuzada October 1, 2025 10:43 am
    I actually dont know a lot, which is my point sadly. But heres a few:- Zero at the bone- Pygmalion- Thirst- neko x neko- playtime with hakdo- like a tidal waveAnd theres one called "Dark Heaven" but i personall... Elliot

    Thankss

    Abuzada October 1, 2025 10:45 am
    I actually dont know a lot, which is my point sadly. But heres a few:- Zero at the bone- Pygmalion- Thirst- neko x neko- playtime with hakdo- like a tidal waveAnd theres one called "Dark Heaven" but i personall... Elliot

    Also I agree with you. Very few comics show switch couple. And it’s always mostly the big guy is top and small guy is bottom. Here the small guy is alpha but he is still a bottom. I don’t get why

    Elliot October 1, 2025 10:52 am
    Also I agree with you. Very few comics show switch couple. And it’s always mostly the big guy is top and small guy is bottom. Here the small guy is alpha but he is still a bottom. I don’t get why Abuzada

    Stereotypical big top small bottom. Everyone claims "power bottom" but its just someone getting dominated on because theyre smaller its so fuckedd..

    burntchiken October 1, 2025 11:58 am
    Stereotypical big top small bottom. Everyone claims "power bottom" but its just someone getting dominated on because theyre smaller its so fuckedd.. Elliot

    So real…. we need more beefy bottoms in this genre :(
    We also need more switches guh…

    Ssska October 1, 2025 6:33 pm
    Okay give me 50 reccomendations of switch couple bls that are atleast 20 chapters, because i could give you 100 examples right now of non switch bl rep couples that have the same role of top and bottom for like... Elliot

    I want this recommendation too, please count me in this request.

    Yumisery October 2, 2025 1:03 am
    Okay give me 50 reccomendations of switch couple bls that are atleast 20 chapters, because i could give you 100 examples right now of non switch bl rep couples that have the same role of top and bottom for like... Elliot

    Hey boo ofc!:

    https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/3140548/

    That’s a list of mangas involving switches it’s over 50 mangas in thereN theres plenty more on this website but yall keep trying to look on main pages etc.Not A lot of people like switches that’s why nb recommends them but if you just took the time to look for them instead of asking me to do it for you, you would find way more

    Yumisery October 2, 2025 1:05 am
    Heyy you seem to know lot of stories with switch couples. Please recommend Abuzada

    ofc!Heres a list i read a lot from this list:

    https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/3140548/

    Yumisery October 2, 2025 1:06 am
    I want this recommendation too, please count me in this request. Ssska

    https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/3140548/

    Ssska October 2, 2025 2:45 am
    Hey boo ofc!:https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3140548/That’s a list of mangas involving switches it’s over 50 mangas in thereN theres plenty more on this website but yall keep trying to look on main pa... Yumisery

    Thanks for the rec, i will check it out. From the description though it sounds more like the list is about the characters who were switches considering their whole life not their current relationship, and thats all the fuss here about - when the couple is in a relationship and they versatile with each other, not just being in a different position prior to their relationship. Bcz miraculous switch from the top to bottom just bcz an mc met an ml is as common as a lesbian going hetero bcz of an mc's wonderful magic stick. But i will defo check the list out, im sure there will be a few works which meet the requirement too.

    Yumisery October 2, 2025 3:20 am
    Thanks for the rec, i will check it out. From the description though it sounds more like the list is about the characters who were switches considering their whole life not their current relationship, and thats... Ssska

    i think those are the first few i read quite a lot from that list and they do have current switches