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I think it comes from the concept where in that society they didn’t really love into account when marrying it was more of a transaction so when it comes to marriage people would either rush it when they are interested or you have to be careful and tone down whatever your feeling because dating wasn’t as well considered at the time
Why is it that novel set in English high society are always slow burn romance, i remember reading a book series where the main couple didn't even get together after the 4th book