Yeah, besides the rape everything else was a reasonable reaction from Ido's POV based on his own childhood traumas. I like that Sejin doesn't just forgive the rape because everything else wasn't too too bad. Sejin has a reasonable reaction to finding out all that and takes the time he needs to work out his emotions and find out who he is independently from Ido. Now, in this lifetime they are finally talking after that break there is hope they will be able to move past this because that one terrible thing can be forgiven and the rest can be explained. I'm so happy with how this is going.
Exactly! May people get a reminder that Ido actually made an effort to get the know Sejin before Sejin gave that info for his father. I mean, doesn’t Ido has the right to be mad about that?
And before people star about it, I understand that rape, in real life, is not okay and not to be forgiven BUT this isn’t real life, this is fiction. And no this is not romanticizing rape either. And if it’s not your style then it’s not your style.
Agree to disagree

I think people make a too big of a deal of what Ido did to Sejin in the past life. I mean, yeah the rape was bad but that’s it, nothing more