Time will tell hy probably won't forgive her but to put his problem onto his child seem kinda selfish it happened to him not the son so I kinda understand it a bit not fully I'm still upset too I won't talk to to what she did but I won't put it on my kids they deserve happiness I don't want to put my pass onto them I want their life to be happy but I would someday let them know the story yess...but I will tell them it's up to them to co tinue talking to that person or not
Plus the mom didn't fully abuse hy t he dad did all the mom did was left and abandon him so I understand the anger so it will take time for me to forgive her but the dad fuck that
What do u mean selfish? Why would u want to introduce ur child to someone who abandoned their own child??
I didn't say introduce cause someday your child would be curious on things and they will ask same what happened to byul when they get older there is nothing wrong with sharing your past to them cause your kids will ask questions
Kids are always noisy and will ask questions is what I said I won't tell them when they are young but when they get older but like I said when they get older they have a mindset on their own your only focus on your anger but like he said it's up to hy to forgive her or not it's not our choice and if he did that's his problem he understand why she left so only he can forgive her if you don't want to you don't have to that's your business but for me I only treat ppl how they treat me because that person did something to you yeah its wrong I will tell them but if she is really sorry and want to repay what she did by treating my kids differently that's fine by mean but I don't want to keep talking to you
They had to perfect opportunity to address his trauma and explain to Byul why everyone shouldn’t be forgiven but of course, we let everything slide in these books because the writer is shit.