i think this even made the story more nuanced, sometimes thats just how relationship work— one of them good at handling thing, one of them clueless. their economic gap also plays a role here
while I agree its kinda been known from the beginning that seo an has a terrible personality/is a bit selfish, everyone but woo won knows this and talks abt it all the time. on the other hand woo won is giving/understanding to a fault. this is simply both their personalities and they understand this abt each other, theyre almost complete opposites and this causes like 80% of the conflict they both face :') its like intrinsic to the plot.
I'm so disappointed with seoan right now. At the beginning when he was dealing with his PTSD woowon was very understanding and supportive and never blamed him for his situation. He stood by his side and that made seoan situation almost go away. Seoan couldn't even function in rainy weather but now he's doing fine in a downpour. He couldn't even stand in a cafeteria line without having a panic attack. Now he's attending wedding ceremonies and gatherings. He's acting like a kid whose favorite toy is taken away from him