Hmmm

I’m sorry but it’s really hard for people who have been abused their brain is rewired their body is chemically altered. They developmental illnesses, and anxieties like reassurance isn’t enough, especially when your trigger is right in front of you I think you understanding is a little bit shallow because unreal illness isn’t just overtaken with one man’s love

I get what you mean and I’m now shallow. I have similar experience with my family. It’s hard for me to trust my bf live completely but I have to learn to try but she’s just not doing it. Also, it’s just a story, for you to get this offended, it’s kinda sad.

I didn’t say you were shallow. I said your understanding is meaning that it’s very superficial and judgmental and I’m not offended lol this is a discussion board/comment page where opinions are voiced and made at everyone is going to agree but it’s open for discussion in a public forum but what I was saying is healing isn’t linear or easy nor is it based off the experience of one person yes ofc it takes drive but that’s not the only factor and we have literal science behind healing moving forward letting go breaking patterns behaviors conditioning developing healthy relationships within yourself and others healthy coping mechanisms Those are all active choice that take years of practice and help especially professional help trauma literally scars the brain and affects every moment of a victim’s life so putting that into a box to fit your narrative seems a little insensitive and naïve love doesn’t always fix or heal all but yeah with that being said it’s a all to real situation based in very real world circumstances I’m not saying you’re wrong or right I’m just saying that it’s more nuanced then the power of love