"He should just kill himself, I would do it in his place..."

This kind of comment got so common in BL for victims of SA, and it always get a lot of likes. Why should a victim end itself? What did the victim of SA did that deserves to die? And I'm not talking about this case in particular so don't say he's a monster like his abuser, I talk in general, with every victim of SA it's always "ugh just kill yourself". It's so disrespectful to all real victims of SA reading that tried so hard to overcome the self hatred, depression and trauma because they want to heal and lead a normal life, and all we read when there's a victim of SA is "they should unalive themselves", as if they were the ones that did something wrong. I miss the times when readers knew that abusive rapists were the ones that should unalive themselves, not their victims. I would never say something so cruel like "a victim of SA should end its life to end the suffering", instead I say abusers should go through twice the pain they caused.