i get 100% get jihan being sad over losing someone he cared for been there done that but e...

tar December 7, 2025 5:24 am

i get 100% get jihan being sad over losing someone he cared for been there done that but expecting him to still want to be friendly when hes currently in the process of moving on is shitty

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    mymelodystar December 7, 2025 5:38 am

    In the nicest way possible, if you understand where jihan is coming from, why are questioning his feelings?

    Yes jinyeong had every right to ignore jihan but you’re making it seem jihan did jinyeong wrong by saying “expecting him to be friendly”, you’re forgetting the fact that jinyeong has been actively harassing jihan by taking jihan’s no for an answer. And yet despite that, jihan’s still sad over ending their relationship.

    If anything, jihan’s a pure heart. Despite jinyeong making him relive his trauma by “cheating” on him, he still stayed with jinyeong. If you know how hard it is for jihan, then what’s the point of questioning his feelings? Both parties are at fault and at the same time, the victims.

    If you think jihan is being shitty for expecting them to still be friendly then what more is jinyeong for allowing his mother to verbally harass jihan and openly meeting other women while they’re still a thing?

    tar December 7, 2025 6:54 am
    In the nicest way possible, if you understand where jihan is coming from, why are questioning his feelings? Yes jinyeong had every right to ignore jihan but you’re making it seem jihan did jinyeong wrong by s... mymelodystar

    yes jihan did something wrong. jinyeong is clearly not over him and jihan is ignoring him on everything else. thats great, but then as soon as he has to face him irl he wants to be friendly? im saying this because ive done something similar, (so sorry for that guy btw) but keeping in touch so soon after usually only hurts the person trying to move on. doesnt mean hes a bad person its just again bad behavior; his feelings are 100% valid, but feelings dont excuse behavior

    and i never said anything about jinyeong being any better than him

    mymelodystar December 7, 2025 8:34 am
    yes jihan did something wrong. jinyeong is clearly not over him and jihan is ignoring him on everything else. thats great, but then as soon as he has to face him irl he wants to be friendly? im saying this beca... tar

    What bad behavior exactly? Jinyeong didn’t even bat him an eye when jihan said hi, and jinyeong didn’t even seem affected by that when he was shown again.

    And i never said you thought jinyeong was better than jihan. If you comprehended what i sent, you’d know what point i’m trying to make. You can call jihan’s “behavior shitty” but you can’t leaving out the part where jinyeong has done so much worse.

    yuta December 7, 2025 8:56 am
    What bad behavior exactly? Jinyeong didn’t even bat him an eye when jihan said hi, and jinyeong didn’t even seem affected by that when he was shown again. And i never said you thought jinyeong was better th... mymelodystar

    Thank you! This is exactly what alot of ppl miss when it comes to jihan’s character

    Gray December 7, 2025 12:29 pm
    In the nicest way possible, if you understand where jihan is coming from, why are questioning his feelings? Yes jinyeong had every right to ignore jihan but you’re making it seem jihan did jinyeong wrong by s... mymelodystar

    "If you think jihan is being shitty for expecting them to still be friendly then what more is jinyeong for allowing his mother to verbally harass jihan and openly meeting other women while they’re still a thing?" Ohhh spill!! (▰˘◡˘▰)

    yuta December 7, 2025 4:43 pm
    "If you think jihan is being shitty for expecting them to still be friendly then what more is jinyeong for allowing his mother to verbally harass jihan and openly meeting other women while they’re still a thi... Gray

    You didn’t say anything new that debunks what they say lmao

    tar December 7, 2025 9:12 pm
    What bad behavior exactly? Jinyeong didn’t even bat him an eye when jihan said hi, and jinyeong didn’t even seem affected by that when he was shown again. And i never said you thought jinyeong was better th... mymelodystar

    Respectfully, I genuinely don’t know how much clearer I can make it I’m not commenting on jinyeongs behavior or defending him at all because it’s been established he’s done bad, you’re arguing against a point I never made…

    N bad behavior isn’t defined by other persons reaction it’s the action itself

    tar December 7, 2025 9:13 pm
    You didn’t say anything new that debunks what they say lmao yuta

    Ohh spill means they agree