All he wants from a relationship is a mutual feelings. Kirishima said at first he wanted to date him because he didn't want him to leave. Not because he likes him. How is it wrong for Toudou to reject Kirishima??? Cut him some slack. He has known Kirishima as a straight guys for many years, on top of that as Kirishima's closest friend too. I'm just glad he didn't take advantage of that situation to manipulate Kirishima's feelings. Their distance gives him time to think properly and realize about how exactly he feels for Toudou.
Exactly! I dunno why people think it's that easy.
If Toudou loved him as much as he claimed then he should have been willing to take it slow and actually date him.
That's actually one of the things that gets me with a lot of BL. Like, if they are only going to do what they always did but have sex sometimes then is that really dating?