I love how you have no shame in your game, your post was very insightful. Hope to see you again in the comment section ;)
It was interesting to read this from a real POV! I wish the dirty details were discussed more in fictional media. I've pegged my fair share of dudes and it seems like they never take as much consideration as you do in cleaning things out.
That is reality vs fiction written by straight women who have never tried anal, for an audience of straight women. They want the fluff and sparkles, not the dirty details on what makes sex or relationships work.
Yeah your right, Yaoi most of the time make it sound like Anal sex was an "Oh-So-Good" and that preparation for a bottom was so easy and good.. but in reality, just like what you said, it was hard and many things to settle..
How I wish Anal sex was easy like in Yaoi manga.. (づ￣ ³￣)づ
But reality Hurts' (￣ε(#￣)Σ
My thoughts after reading the first 4 chapters:
It really fucking annoyed me when the seme wouldn’t compromise about the whole who would bottom thing. As someone who bottoms (though I’m verse), it can be very difficult and time consuming! Having to clean my ass with an enema and prepare is already hard and annoying enough but I also have to keep on worrying during sex whether if I’ll accidentally give my partner a shit dick (this is why always wear condom because I’ve given people a couple of shitdicks and having to clean the sheets with poop is not a fun thing). I even have to be careful of what I eat if I know I’m having sex that day. I really hate how yaoi have made it sound like anal sex is just as easy as straight sex because it is nowhere near that. Bottoming could feel good (never really good, just “good”) but it highly depends if your partner can do it right. Doesn’t matter if you prepare and everything, it just takes one rough top who doesn’t know what he’s doing to ruin the whole thing. Out of all the times I bottomed I would say that about 80% of them was border-line decent and the 20% is somewhat good. Honestly most of the time while I’m getting fucked my stomach actually hurts (which is why I’ve only dated asians because they’re like the perfect size lol not big but not too small) but like most bottoms I know, I just suck it up and hope that my partner is feeling good. At least some tops give their bottoms a bj at the end kind of like a compensation lol so that’s pretty nice, but a lot of tops don’t realize how much work bottoming can be and it really fucking annoys me lmao. Which is why when I top I always try to be gentle as I can be (unless they like it rough haha) because goddamn can it hurt. I’ve done it with someone who did not look like they were big but damn I could not walk for three whole days.
EDIT: oh my god how can I forget about blood! Your ass could tear and it is NOT fun thank god I’ve only experienced it once but I know people who likes to do it with guys that are big and they tell me they always tear and start bleeding
Anyways this turned to more of a rant lmao sorry.
ALSOOOO I’m fucking pissed that he didn’t even say sorry once for making a mess in the kitchen smh