To me it doesn’t matter what your sexuality is, that won’t stop you from loving someone. Though, a lot of people who get lovers of the same sex often label themselves as gay or bi, there are people that still consider themself straight. And also, there are other sexualities than gay, bi, and straight, so we really wouldn’t know unless they label themself directly.
I think it is not important if you are gay or bi, the important think is if you love them or not, for me gender doesnt matter.
I think most people are taking about this story specifically, where clearly it's more than just a sexual relationship
I personally identify as Pansexual but since a lot of people don't agree that there is more than two genders when they ask me I tell them that I am Bi. I still identify as Pan, but just so they understand better AND to avoid a big debate, I say I am Bi.
(But only to those who are not familiar with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum)
I know it’s more than a sexual relationship but you can fall in love with someone with the same sex than you and be straight. Plus there is a lot of yaoi with this kind of story so I don’t understand why people categorize them like gay just because they slept together.
So people in comments think that if you have a sexual relation with someone who has the same sex than you, you are automatically gay or bi :/ ...