I hope you're doing well ╥﹏╥
Dam your friends are trash. Why would boy cares if you like other girls(even if its not true) and girls shouldn’t care if you ain’t acting in a flirting way. Sorry for you and I hope it gets better when you get older.
Thank you ;3; I found it much easier being alone now honestly. Think this was a great way for me to step back and practice more in self love them pleasing others!
Thank you so much ;;-;; it really hurt when those situations happened but I think that’s what needed to happen so I can take care of myself more than to go out of my way to help others. There was some positives, but of course it took a while.
Holy shit this made me tear up. It’s more like a rant of what I been through that I remembered while reading this.
Sum: No matter what you do or say, some people are just going to be assholes and not believe you. Or they’re going to get upset that you’re trying to protect and defend yourself. Like the main dude in this, it’s really stressful trying to prove yourself when you weren’t in the wrong in the first place, or were manipulated/got taken advantage of. Especially when you’re too kind and don’t want to hurt someone else in the process. Life’s tough but we all gotta get through it somehow.
I’m a girl that’s acts like a Tom boy. I’ve been raised along with many boy cousins so I picked up on guys mannerism and that’s just how I act. I prefer my hair short cause it gets in the way and that’s just how I like myself. A recently new guy friend spread rumors about me, cause he didn’t like how I behaved around his new gf. Ofc, if it was a normal situation I would immediately apologize if my actions towards their gf came off the wrong way (because I am too nice to others so it looks like I’m flirting or something? Lmao idk) but it wasn’t a normal situation. He didn’t like the fact that my best friend of 2-3 years was more affectionate to me than to her 2-3day bf. It wasn’t romantically affectionate, it was platonically. I’m not much of a hugger so I’m used to standing there while she tackle hugs me. So me being me I’m used to it after years, so it’s no surprise. But he doesn’t confront his gf that he’s uncomfortable with that, he instead confronts me by saying stop leading her on or stop flirting with her cause he hates gays (even tho I’m not? Lol). Long story short people at school and church avoided me, looked at me weirdly, and I lost most of my friends. No matter what I said or did to prove my point of defend myself it’s always “he said, she said” type of thing. So now I learned how to deal things by myself. And like the main dude in this it’s really stressful trying to prove yourself when you weren’t in the wrong in the first place, or were manipulated or got taken advantage of. This took a sad turn oof.