1) Let's not play dumb. He isn't interested in the other sub, he is taking grudge on Chanwoo.
2) It's not BDSM. It some toxic, irresponsible bs that doesn't have much to do with BDSM which is based on trust and satisfaction of participants.
3) Being hurt by rejection don't give you the right to hurt Chanwoo, manipulate him and make him do things, under disguise of some competition, he is uncomfortable with. But he would feel obligated to do because he doesn't want to lose and feels obligated. That situation is not fully consensual and safe BDSM.
4) MD as experienced dom shouldn't take advantage of the fact that Chanwoo doesn't know when to say no.
Just no.
1) I agree with this. Obviously. This manhwa is not about the sub and MD lol. Grudge, hmm, that's still questionable as of now. Maybe yes, maybe no, or maybe both. The chapter didn't reveal MD's whole and true feelings yet. Just the reactions on his face. We will see on the next chapters yeah?
2) Well if u say so, then this toxic, irresponsible bs started after Chanwoo ignores MD's feelings? U see, he rejected him yet he wants to continue their BDSM - which completely ignores MD. If Chanwoo is responsible too, he should have cut off ties with MD.
3) that's so true my friend. I agree. No to manipulation and hurting. But Chanwoo can say no right? He can say no and MD will not force him. If he's uncomfortable, then say no. But why do u think he felt obligated? Maybe because he cares about MD? If so, then they should just talk it out again. Listen to each other's wants and needs. Not only telling the other that I still want this and that. Don't blame MD only cos if the topic is being irresponsible, then Chanwoo is equally at fault (he wants to continue the BDSM tho MD didnt say yes, he wants to have a relationship with another guy and contacted MD without thinking if MD wants to hear them yet etc).
4) Well, he showed that on the last chapter right? He was the one who said the safe word when Chanwoo doesnt know when to say no. it is Chanwoo's choice to say no this time. He was given chances and he is also an experienced sub so he should know.
And finally, I see your comments on other posts too. And I think u really dont like MD. It is your right but please dont put all the blame on MD. I think they are equally responsible on their choices and relationship. Chanwoo and MD are both adults. And I have 30+ thumbs up on my comment above so I think I am not totally wrong. These are just my opinions so dont invalidate them. Lol. ^^
Many people here are angry with MD. I agree with you guys that Chanwoo has the right to reject MD and not accept his feelings, and to have other boyfriends especially what he has with MD is business only, sex partners at that. Right?
BUUUUUT! From what I see, MD didn't become bad after Chanwoo rejected him. Cos u see, he didn't force Chanwoo to be his lover, he stopped their play last time and said the safe word so he wont hurt Chanwoo anymore. He didn't say that they will not be sex partners anymore just because he is rejected. Cos it's also Chanwoo's wish to stay the same.
I think it's also right to say that MD has the right to be hurt when he was rejected (who wouldnt? Especially if your feelings are sincere). He has the right not to call Chanwoo for weeks (or forever). He has the right to find other subs like what he was doing before meeting Chanwoo.
For those who think that the slap is not right, well guys, what they're doing is BDSM. I think other BDSM shows are worse than MD's shows so I don't find the slap so bad. Remember that MD's role is to be the dom/sadist, they are not doing a passionate show. Okay?
So in conclusion, Chanwoo and MD have their own rights. What makes this complicated right now is Chanwoo's feelings- he doesn't want to lose MD and he doesn't want anything to be changed. But how can u expect MD to be the same as always immediately? He has still feelings guys. He really cares for Chanwoo. Like Chanwoo cannot force himself to accept MD's feelings, MD cannot force himself to ignore his feelings and be the same as always.
If they cannot come to an understanding, then I think it's better to part ways. So they wont hurt each other's feelings anymore.
Just saying guys.