He's just a misunderstood sweet cinnamon roll, who doesn't get the love he deserves and never appreciated for his efforts and selfless act, and always put as the villian just so that they can feel good about themselves without evn trying to understand him ヽ(`Д´)ノ, if it was me I would love him back and let him know that he's appreciated and do things for him too, not like a certain friend -_- who takes all of his effort and loyalty and everything he's ever done for him as granted, and always emotionaly distant with him, evn tho J's always told him he loves him and how much he adores him, he treated him like trash and gave his love to someone who comes so effortlessly in a short amount of time and someone who puts way less effort (︶︿︶)=凸, reminds me of my ex-bff.
It's sad how people just realize you said that. You only talk about his feelings and his suffering, but what about Chiwoo? Chiwoo was suffering from having Jihyun stuck to him all the time. Chiwoo couldn't make friends without Jihyun pushing them away, basically half of Chiwoo's life and happiness was taken away by Jihyun due to his self-absorption. The only reason Jihyun wants Chiwoo back is to make 'himself' happy, he never thought about Chiwoo's feelings at all. Jihyun also raped and physically abused Chiwoo which makes their relationship unhealthy. Not only was Chiwoo suffering, but Kyujin was also. Kyujin waited years and years for Chiwoo to be with him, but the problem was Chiwoo always had Jihyun interfering so it was hard for the two to actually confess their love to each other. For all this chaos Jihyun caused, he does not deserve to be forgiven. He deserves happiness, but not with Chiwoo. I hope that Jihyun can find someone who will care for him and make him happy. After that, he should not get involved with Chiwoo's personal life ever again, the same goes for Chiwoo.
I believe you're only making a bunch of excuses to cover up what he did in the past. Also, don't compare your ex-boyfriend to him ever again... (¬_¬)
First of all, that physical abuse was only one time, and it was only after he was driven into a corner and he couldn't take it anymore, and he genuinely regretted it, everyone makes mistakes, but if someone is genuinely regretting and try their very best to change, then u shouldn't bring their past up all the time, no one likes their past mistakes shoved in their face time and time again when they themselves are trying very hard to get better. Second, I said BFF(meaning my ex-bestfriend) not boyfriend. 3rd, chiwoo isn't exactly an angel here either, just as Jihyun has his faults, chiwoo has his faults too, if someone were to write criticisms in both of them, there would both be a lot, I was just pointing out how much of a hypocrite and unfair he was to J, and I don't ship Jihyun x chiwoo either, becuz J deserves someone who actually loves him and appreciates him just as much as he do to them, not like some ungrateful fake friend who don't evn want to acknowledge all the sacrifices he made for him, has an indecisive personality and half-assed kindness.
First of all, if you're going to type a proper sentence don't overuse commas because reading this is very confusing. Make sure to capitalize the 'first letter' when staring a sentence and put a 'punctuation' at the end of each sentence. Sorry! Just had to point that out because most people here can actually type properly than this.
One time or not, rape should never be justified or have any excuses. You might not realize it right now, but right now you are sticking up and trying to justify the actions of a person who treated another person like sh*t and used as self-comfort. That's like saying, "Hey, I murdered your entire family! I didn't mean to, so please forgive me! That's all in the past so let's just forget it!" I know you shouldn't always bring up the past, but it depends on if what the person did is considered to be forgiving or not. Just because Jihyun has matured and grown-up, doesn't mean his actions should be forgiven. A person changing does not give them a free pass to do as they wish. Bringing up the past can be logical and necessary at times, it's very important. You shouldn't also always 'forget' the past too. Jihyun regrets it, but does that mean Chiwoo is in the wrong or that means he has to forgive him? And I'm sorry, I misread "ex-bestfriend".
You say Chiwoo is at fault, yet you don't have evidence to support your reasoning at all. How/Where/Why Chiwoo is at fault?! What did Chiwoo ever did to hurt Jihyun to make his actions to YOU justify?! If you can please explain and be specific it would actually make more sense. Chiwoo back then was confused, scare, and dependable on other people than himself. I believe Chiwoo was not in the wrong at all! Jihyun was controlling half of Chiwoo's life and of course he's going to act the way he did towards Jihyun. Chiwoo needed someone to save him and someone did that for him, that someone is 'Kyujin'. Kyujin actually thinks about his feelings and even risked himself for him. Did Jihyun do that? No, he didn't. Chiwoo wanted to be with Kyujin when they were teenagers but Jihyun had always pushed them away from each other. Jihyun isn't completely at fault, but he is the MOST at fault. I do wish Jihyun to gain happiness and to develop a relationship with someone else, but not with Chiwoo. The two of them are adults now, and it's time for Jihyun to move on.
Again, you're only making a bunch of excuses to cover up his past actions. Stop trying to make excuses for rape, abuse, unhealthy relationships. It's not cool or funny, neither is it considered ok.
I agree ( ̄へ ̄), thank you, these people are so toxic, and he's not a villain at all, he is a very sweet and good guy, just misunderstood and never gets the love he deserves. And these Kyujin stans are probably jerks in real life who takes people's kindness and affection as granted and doesn't know the real meaning of loyalty and dedication, that's why they relate to him so much lol.

I only like Jihyun, fuck the others (︶︿︶)=凸