LoL so if somebody just tells you repeatedly to trust them but doesn't bother to explain why and what is happening and his/her communication is half-explanatory, you blindly trust them for sure? Because yeah, everything you wrote is true, BUT let's talk also about how the seme cannot think just for a sec to explain WHY should the uke trust him and just briefly tell him wtf is going on. I'm not saying he has to tell him about his big secret company project whatsoever, but it would already help if seme-chan could say at least this much: "Hey, I'm involved in something big and risky right now, and if they find out about you, it would be dangerous for both of us. Plz truat me and work with me on this one" . How hard is that I mean ╮(￣▽￣)╭ ? So let's not put all the blame and stuff on uke-chan, okay? That is just pissing me off （￣へ￣）
You know what I feel more sorry to the uke than the seme. I mean uke like seme so much and he was his first for everything so it's natural that uke will act that way. But seme didn't explain anything to him and worst is he just push the uke away from him without any explanation or a hint. Can you imagine being a place with uke. The seme hosting a party every night at his suite while the uke was not invited there so how would you feel? And he push the uke away from him that's all period. Of course the uke would feel bad. Salute the uke for being patience instead. if I'm treated like that I just feel unimportant cause you don't know anything about him.
I’m not saying the seme wasn’t at fault but I was just pointing out that the uke also had fault in the problems cuz some ppl only blame the seme so I was just putting out my perspective where the uke is more at fault... tho I agree the same could’ve gave a brief explanation but I also feel like the uke would’ve tried to involve himself in the situation which would’ve also created problems... anyways thank u for commenting like this (last time I tried commented my perspective on the situation where someone else also was pissed about the same thing and ppl would get pissed and be like it’s all the seme’s fault without considering this perspective)
But if the time the uke saw how the media were trying to get all the shots they can of him and how hard he worked to hide himself from the public then the uke would’ve understood the reason also I’m not saying the seme has no faults but the fact that the seme is putting so much effort into the relationship but the uke having not even a little trust pisses me off like I stopped reading cuz I hate when trouble arises because one character has no trust while the other character is putting so much effort to solve the problems and just keeps getting doubted (like I understand the seme isn’t telling the uke everything but the seme just wants to solve this situation quickly without troubling ppl around him) so idk if the uke’s personality improves or not but since a lot of ppl don’t think about the seme and his perspective on the situation and say it’s his fault, I’m just putting out what I get from the situation where the seme isn’t at full fault (also I feel like the uke is getting a free pass because ppl feel bad for him for not having any friends but I also can see part of that being his fault because he rarely tries to initiate a conversation or insert himself into one unless it’s like a few word comment) anyways what I’m basically saying is the uke Could’ve had a little trust in the seme like dude u fell in love w someone so to overcome problems u have to trust each other even if it’s hard like if even after months it’s the same then u can start doubting and I would understand but like after few hours of being unable to meet, the uke starts doubting so I feel like the uke needs to consider the seme’s position (also needs to learn how to read the mood and situation) and trust the person who noticed him (tho I feel like the uke is kinda part of the reason why he doesn’t get noticed)... btw this is my perspective on things so don’t be like some random ppl on here who don’t understand that like idc if u guys comment on my post to express ur opinion about my perspective but don’t be like it’s wrong and stuff cuz to me ur opinion could be wrong so hopefully ur not like those ppl who trying to “prove me wrong” while giving the same excuse of the uke not knowing anything and me repeatedly having to say he still needs to have some degree of trust and know how to read the situation which just causes the whole argument to go around in circles cuz ppl ignore any other reasons I give to why the uke pisses me off/is part of the problem
I experienced this before that my ex told me to trust him cause he had a reason but trust me you can't just say trust me without a reasoning I hope that the seme would just give a hint or a small talk about the media instead cause the uke doesn't have any idea for who he is. You don't get my point here. And reality wise everyone in this situation would do the same what uke did. Just be thankful to uke's patience. I think about the seme perspective but what he did was his mistakes. And also the seme doesn't hide to the media instead he wants his reputation ruined by the media. He just realize it later on what he did was a mistake. And you will not understand how first experience in relationship feel especially he's first for everything.
Ok so u think everyone’s like ur ex or something??? Also I’m pretty sure u had trusted ur ex when u first started dating and idk ur situation but in this situation I don’t get why u guys always blame the seme for everything like the uke was at fault to... like idk if ur blaming it all on the seme but u honestly can’t like I do think a brief explanation would’ve been good but other than that the uke’s personality pisses me off cuz he’a way too quick to doubt like few hours of being separated the uke starts doubting the seme like u can’t put all the blame on the seme (btw I’m not putting all the blame on the uke but I’m just focusing on his faults cuz ppl don’t talk about the uke’s faults and only focuses on the seme and blames the whole thing on the seme) also u said everyone would act like what the uke did in that situation but if u think about ppl don’t start doubting other ppl after not even a day of being separated while the uke for some reason can even wait few days... also let me just say the seme noticed the uke like the uke should realize that the seme actually like him cuz the seme didn’t forget about him and seeks out for him like trust the person who cares for u not other ppl’s words (also pls don’t be the type of person who thinks their perspective on this is ideal or some crap cuz it’s not and I’ll be fine if ur just expressing ur opinion on my perspective but if ur trying to change my thought or trying to act like ur view on the situation is perfect or some crap then idgaf and Im literally am gonna ask u to just stfu and stop commenting cuz it’s annoying and ur not perfect and u can’t tell me that I’m wrong or some crap so don’t be that person if u r then bye cuz that type is annoying af)
Kinda feel bad for the seme cuz like he’s just trying to protect the uke from having trouble in the future also the seme is actually responsible and thinks of the consequences of things going public but the uke doesn’t think of that and keeps doubting the seme even tho the seme tries to tell him that it’s to prevent trouble from arising... like the seme is trying so hard for him and the uke but the uke just keeps doubting him and going against what the seme told him to do also the uke gets pissed really easily and that makes me feel even more bad for the seme cuz he’s just trying to protect the uke also since the uke doesn’t listen to the seme unnecessary problems keep arising causing the seme to have more work and worry