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Overall I'm against red flags. How why must it be hard to make romance romantic by having people worth loving?!!!
Anyways, even though i hate the lack of romance in this genre and even if i call out red flags, i admit i still enjoy the stories. Yes even the rape and utterly cold attitudes. But this shit is one I utterly hate. It's not shown so much in this story but evident enough in the other one.
I hate how someone can be 'in love' and willingly have sex with another. I can understand if it's someone trying to forget their love and move on as they believe thye don't have a chance, but someone like this guy who has been planning for years and been 'in love' willingly beds another is trash. I can understand the whole omega pheromones in this setting and even the poor parenting in this story, to a degree. Because outside of that influence that he doesn't even try restraining his desires. He still drowns himself in lust. If you can't bother holding yourself off from sex how weak is that love? Does our uke mean so little to him? Like imagine in the future he cheats cause he felt like having sex with another. That affection is worthless if he can't bother to improve himself for his love.