Miss.outako88's Topics (135)

[SPOILER ALERT]
about the revenge... still have a long way to go.
yes, now he knows that jay is director yoon.

tf u mean

are you slow

I mean, yeah Dan said he will do whatever this asshole Jaekyung wants but like,that does not justify him being cruel and hurting Dan. He treats him like an animal, he slams Dan whereever he wants and do hard sex that results to Dan hurting physically or what. HE'S JUST PROVING HIMSELF TO BE A FUCKING DICK MOTHERFUCKING ASSHOLE!

ummm no, just bc he agreed to do it anytime doesnt mean the seme has the right to treat dan poorly and basically in an abusive manner. as well as the fact that despite the agreement, noncon sex is still rape. and kim dan is doing it bc he had limited choices due to his circumstances. we r upset bc the story is so toxic when it doesnt need to be and it will most likely end w them both “in love” despite the trauma dan had to experience. that isnt love, its fear and most likely in his case, stockholm.

You are the kind of people we called color blind....

This was unnecessary. It was insulting. People are allowed to express their opinions. Stop attacking others.

This was unnecessary. It was insulting. People are allowed to express their opinions. Stop attacking others. Talk about what they talked about instead.

1. No person is ever required to have sex with someone else. Regardless of a contract or not. It is called sexual coercion and that is sexual assault if Dan doesn’t consent. Rape is sexual assault not all sexual assault is rape. Sexual coercion ≠ rape. I am with you he need to treat dan better. He does treat him in an abuusive manner. But rape is your pov. The story does tell a different story. You can view it as rape but don't force that opinon on others. Not everyone shares that opinion. The ones that see it Sexual Assualt are upset that it toxic too but we just handle we oursevles better, for most of us or we stop talking for the attacks on us. Who would want to make comment with getting cyberbullied each time.
2. It is not an will not stockholm. I don't have the links. I have to find the TM SM post.
3. It is love but fear is taken over fear of losing him is taking over. have you looked up possession and jealousy? The seme is insercue of himself. He is toxic and nothing justifiy his toxic behavior or some of the ones commenting.

Well said

Everyone is hating on seme and the story here. People are getting silenced by the hate. The truth offends them. The real story detalis does too. Dan is not and can not develope Stockholm Syndrome. You are right. You are right in the details. You did not say anything to get attacked. You said basically he was toxic and therapy. They are triggered happy here and showing there is problem here. Too many are here to just hate on the story and comments like this

Can we have civil converstations here? and stop attacking others? The attacks were uncalled and shows you were just waiting to pounce on someone with a different opinion to insult them. That is sad. Why can we just have properly talk to others. There is nothing with expressing different opinions.

Thank you. Sorry for the typos. I thought I caught my mistakes and even Grammarly didn't catch them. Grammarly and I glitched lol.

Here is TMSM's post.
it isn’t Stockholm Syndrome.
As we know, Stockholm Syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time. This condition applies to situations including child abuse, coach-athlete abuse, relationship abuse, and sex trafficking

This isn’t the right type of relationship abuse and if you look at psychological causes, signs, and symptoms this story doesn’t fit.

https://www.choosingtherapy.com/stockholm-syndrome/#:~:text=Some%20of%20the%20more%20common,documented%20in%20the%20research%20include%3A&text=Feeling%20closely%20bonded%20or%20attached,of%20the%20captor%20or%20abuser

It gives you 5 Examples of Stockholm Syndrome. None are close. 4 is the Stockholm syndrome abusive relationship. The abuse that causes Stockholm Syndrome isn’t there and there many elements that don’t allow to development of Stockholm syndrome.
The original Beauty and the Beast is Stockholm Syndrome but the Disney’s version isn’t. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1460&context=criterion#:~:text=The%20original%20Beauty%20of%20Beauty,syndrome%20have%20all%20but%20vanished.

I am with you he needs to treat Dan better. He does treat him in an abusive manner. You can view it as rape but don't force that opinion on others. Not everyone shares that opinion. The ones that see it as Sexual assault are upset that it is toxic too but we just handle ourselves better, for most of us or we stop talking for the attacks on us. Who would want to make a comment with getting cyberbullied each time?
2. It is not or will be not Stockholm.*

just a few corrections.

nH bruh deranged people like you need to be institutionalized

You are talking about yourself. I am ordinary. I don't have to degrade others to feel better about myself. Your comment is highly abusive. Stop attacking others. Have a civil conversation here on Jinx and stop exposing your insecurities and cowardice to everyone. That is exposing yourself as a cyberbully who can't handle a civil conversation or other's opinions than your own you should seek professional help on that. This is not healthy.

ok you sound crazy first of all. as someone wo has experienced both circumstances, i am very much able to differentiate the two. now if a person says "no" or some form of it, and another person does it to them anyway, it is non-consensual. non-consenual sex is rape, point. blank. purriod. there is no opinions in factual matters. i am not "cyberbullying" u bc me stating facts contradicts ur personal opinion. as for it being love, it isnt. u cannot truly love someone romantically that u fear to the extent kim dan does jae kyung. and lastly, if u r in a jeapordizing situation then sometimes sex may be the only option. im not saying that is his situation, however, what jae kyung is doing to kim dan is rape, assault, and abuse.

ate em up!

Mel, your reply to me is crazy and abusive. You personally attacked me. Please stop and start having civil conversations here when people have different opinions. We can openly express different opinions without degrading others or destroying others. You are cyber bullying here. Also, I don’t give my personal opinion. I gave a fact from the story. You are forcing your pov on me. You see rape. Rape is your pov. The story is Sexual Assault and abuse. You can see rape but you have no right to force it down my throat. I see you giving me your opinion as facts. There is no rape in jinx. I am a rape crisis counselor. Stop cherry picking to your pov and start looking at the details better. The story tells a different story. Stop attacking others. Stop making facts my opinion too. Stop making your opinion a fact.

Stop encouraging bad faith behavior. We don’t need more abusive behavior or cyber bullying on this page. Start having civil conversations here. What disgusting behavior.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/sexual-coercion#what-it-is

Sexual coercion is when a person pressures, tricks, threatens, or manipulates someone into having sex. It is a type of sexual assault because even if someone says yes, they are not giving their consent freely.

Type of SEXUAL ASSAULT. In all the examples only one is explicitly defined as rape. Not my opinion.


https://florinroebig.com/sexual-assault-guide/. 




Rape is a form of sexual assault. However, not all forms of sexual assault will be considered rape. 


Possessiveness is fundamentally a fear of loss. Possessive people worry that their partners will leave them. This creates feelings of fear, anger, and sadness. Trust is a vital aspect of a healthy relationship. In order to trust, you must feel your partner is reliable, cares about you, and can be counted on. People who are securely attached believe they’re worthy of love and that others can be trusted.

Possessiveness often stems from insecurities related to attachment styles. People with attachment anxiety tend to have a negative view of themselves and a positive view of others. They worry that their partners can’t be trusted. They have a chronic fear of rejection.


https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/signs-possessiveness

It is love. He has been into Dan since chapter 1. You are not understanding. It is not to the romantic stage yet.

Okay now you can see. My post was not my opinion. It is as just facts. You find facts crazy and you attack me on it. That would be cyber bullying. Please stop and start having civil conversations with people who have slightly different opinions. If I am crazy, so are you. Our opinions are virtually the same but a few differences, if you paid attention and rape is sexual assault. So by me saying it is 100% SA and not rape. That would make you crazy too.

Stop normalizing rape....

Would you please have a civil conversation? Stop adding rape to a non-rape story.
I would not normalize rape. I condemn rape. I think rapists should get a life or a death penalty. but please learn to differentiate fantasy and reality.
Stop being ridiculous. Stop being disgusting and forcing your uneducated pov on me.

Haru, Mel, Jean:
We may have different views on a few things, but we can still try to understand the other's party opinion, and vice-versa. For that to happen a calm attitude is better. You need to STOP forcing your pov and attacking others, It is disgusting. What you have done here is not acceptable. You are trying to suppress my voice. I have dealt with this pettiness for over 2 months. I will not let my voice be suppressed anymore. Stop silencing others with your hate and learn how to be better people. I would not normalize rape and if you took the time to read I had facts on my side. Stop cowardly and being petty. You are exposing yourselves as bullies and someone who can't handle the truth or a different pov than your own. I have said nothing for you to be so abusive. The story is less abusive than you guys. The story is fictional. I am real. It is a trivial story. I worry about real rape survivors and real people. you care about an opinion and attack someone to be right in that opinion when they just give you facts. You are attacking facts here. You are not attacking me. I am not interested in abusive behavior so take your anger over a trivial story elsewhere. Stop being abusive to other people. It is sick.

Miss.outako88
If your pov is rape, please see I have said it is okay. "You can view it as rape but don't force that opinion on others. " I know there are many POVs. I accept and allow them. Some parts is rape! but the nsxt part changes or the whole scene change it. It is also the fact of keeping first impressions of the first reading from a badly written story. Rape is a pov it is logical on a first reading, first impression, not taking in all the details or not understanding Rape/SA/ sexual coerion. Most of the ones saying it is rape are haters and don't care about the story or want to learn the real pov. The real target auidence and geniune readers know with a careful reading and taking everything into consideration. There are POV's that don't see any SA or rape.

Nothing like that happens in the past or present; Ruby's first and last man is her husband. That asshole whipped Ruby; he physically abused her. I want to kill him so badly and punish him too.

In some platforms I see fans comments about her getting raped by her brother and they say in the true story she was even pregnant from her brother and killed her self but the author give her a happy ending by having tow time-lines ..

Really? I didn't know that. I read the novel and that never happens. Hopefully not

Yeah is the children of the original couples (the seme was born; the uke was adopted)

woah no way, the story’s gotten pretty far then....

I would recommend you don't start with their story rn. It's pretty frustrating rn. Maybe wait for another 10 chapters

are there chapters with the old couple, i wanna see old married life

Our king is how is just use to be. Selfish.
They don't have much screen time together as a couple in the new chapters. And our main wife missing in action :v.

Our king is just how he use to be*