If you really are in love with your partner then you shouldn't be ashamed of their gender. You should be proud of your sexuality and I understand not wanting others to know if you're nervous, but don't take your wedding ring off. That is very disrespectful and if I had a girlfriend or a wife id be extremely hurt if she took of her ring. Just tell people you're married and don't talk about gender. Unfortunately some people will put others down because of who they love, which is disgusting.
TL;DR Be kind and don't take off your wedding ring in this situation.
thing is, if you say you’re married to the “appropriate” gender they’ll ask you who they are or if you have pictures and when you fail to deliver it sends the wrong message. It’s better to avoid that and take off the ring. You shouldn’t be so insecure to not understand that. Specially since their rings match so i mean it doesn’t take a genius to add two and two










Aww that's so cuteeee eek