If I were there to advise Ham I'd tell him to just get out of that house work part time and fund his music then date In Suh. But! Good thing I'm not there coz he wouldn't have met Yechan and bruh who am i to advise stuff when I'm still here freeloading in my parents' house ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
music is super expensive to fund, equipment, lessons, paying for competitions and travel etc so he wouldn't have been able to afford it on part time work for sure :(
This is one of my most awaited updates thank yoooouuuuu (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ