How did you become a fujoshi/fudanshi?

1. How did yu become a fujoshi/fudanshi?
2. How open are you about yaoi to others?
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1. So mine happened after i watched Yumeiro Patissiere and was looking for similar recommendation at....well, google images. And then I ended up having results where Yuri Hime Wildrose is mixed in. And then my curiosity gave in to a whole new genre. So i started searching about it. I still didnt know about manga sites back then and i dont know about yuri and yaoi as another type of genre so i was like searching for lesbian manga hahahaha. And then the oh so genius google let me stumble up with image results where Koisuru Boukun is mixed in. And it is when it all started. Now i already reached hardcore stuff i cant return hahahahaha

2. So the thing is about google images is...it did help me find this oh so good genre called yaoi but it also got me busted. my parents who were outside the house that time which i thought they have this very poor eyesight. they are not even inside the house! hahaha. but they caught me googling indecent yaoi photos. i didnt even open the pics just scrolling them and they still saw it hahaha. so then we had a talk about it and as long as i dont practice the things i read in real life not until im of age then they allow it *whew*. Since then my whole family knew and i had no reason to cover it anymore. so I'm very very open about my love of yaoi even to perfect strangers. i talk about it but i still read secretly in public. to each their own some may say but i still have a slight decent conscience hahahahaha