About stalking profiles.
Imma say - checking out profiles. What's wrong with checking someone's profile? People on here take it as such a personal affront, lol, which is so silly. What's wrong with checking someone's preferences out to know them and meaningfully interact with them? And why is it called stalking? Your profile is in the public domain and unless your settings are set to private, it's there for anyone to see. The site is designed to promote open interaction and opinion sharing. So what's the problem if someone checks your profile? It's like going to antarctica and complaining you are cold lol.
I would rather prefer it if someone checked out my profile and got a sense of my tastes before interacting with me, not only is it more convenient, it also makes for a more informed and fun interaction. It's very effective too. Before I take someone's recommendations seriously, I give their profiles a check to see what other BLs they like. It's a pretty reliable measure of checking whether their recommendation is worth checking out. Nine out of ten times, it's not.
I mostly like unpopular works, as most popular bl is pretty shit to read, and many fans get so offended by my reviews of BLs heh. One time they asked me - why you crapping on my favs, what do you even like huhuhu?
Just go check out my profile dude. It's not that difficult to satisfy that query. Unless you just want to pick a silly juvenile fight, which evidently many fans do. Juvenile seems to be the right word..
I “stalk” my moots everyday YES everyday I’m watching y’all’s moves. and I like it when people stalk me it makes me feel special so feel free to do it ️
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I spend 50% of my time here stalking my mutuals and users i have a parasocial relationships with lol especially Doll and Me_for_president cuz they got peak taste
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dont everyone do that ? there’s nothing wrong stalking like THIS. but when someone stalks your entiiiiiire profile, when you’ve been there for years, commented thousands of times etc, i personally find it kinda creepy. you have to b really unemployed to do so. usually if i wanna follow someone i go on their page and look thru a bit but not ever......
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Stalking accounts are fun sometimes. I like knowing what others opinions on stories are. Stalking others acc also give me recs or makes me remember a story I've forgotten. If someone stalked my account, I mean. I hope you enjoyed reading my long rants in my lists.
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I stalk forum users' reading lists all the time. If any of you see something familiar in my list, there's like an 80% chance I sniped it from you.
I don't mind if people browse my stuff, it's all public for a reason. If anyone happens to look through it, just know I don't recommend everything in my currently reading. It's full of good, bad, and me......
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I am guessing those people who do not want their profiles checked have something to hide.
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i lwk want someone to check my profile and psychoanalize what kind of person i am
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i lowkey stalk people all the time ngl and put stuff from their reading list into mine lol...
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i like to dig through people’s lists and reading. if i’ve replied to you or you’ve replied to me… i’ve probably dug through for some new reads. if i like what you’ve recommended, consider your account scanned and thoroughly inspected.
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i don't see what's wrong with it ┐(´ー`)┌
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