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I do believe that yaoi can have tendencies to fetishize gay men- some yaois more than others, but I don’t think it’s any more fetishized/sexualized than straight relationships. I think it’s when people get ahead of themselves and start to ship and bother real people that it becomes a problem. If they push their ship onto real people(Bothering two people who don’t show any signs they are in a relationship), then that’s the actual fetishization of gay men; I don’t think enjoying yaoi necessarily means that you fetishize them. Some yaoi actually portray realistic relationships, while others are just porn. There’s nothing wrong with porn- there’s straight and lesbian porn so I don’t see how yaoi fetishizes it more than the others. As long as you keep fiction away from real life, I don’t think It’s “disgusting” to like reading yaoi.

When the argument that yaoi fetishizes gay men comes up, it’s often by a person who’s never read a yaoi manga(a good one at least) so I’m curious to see others’ opinions on this. Do you think yaoi fetishizes gay men? If you are a gay man yourself, does it bother you that women read and sometimes get off to yaoi manga?
19 07,2020
Ummm... There's this manga I really want to read but I can't remember the title, it's about a girl that was raped and then she becomes a hikikomori so her best friend tries to make her overcome her traumatism, he tries to improve her mood with jokes but the problem is that he doesn't have any sense of humor and he isn't funny so he learns to be funny for her.

It isn't a yaoi or a Yuri, I don't think it's very recent.
18 07,2020
I started reading back in maybe 2012? And I haven't stopped since lol. I feel like it may peter off once I get into a relationship or something but I'm not really looking for one anytime soon. What do you guys think?
18 07,2020
last year I spent about 4 months listening to breakthrough nonstop. now everytime that it plays my mom goes 'ENOUGH!!!!'
18 07,2020
I created an 18+ LGBT friendly Yaoi Discord server where we talk about yaoi, anime, anything really. We have over 20 channels for you to explore where you can simp over characters, get yaoi recommendations, play games, and more! We'd love new friends if you want to join https://discord.gg/gg7gJvD
18 07,2020
Hello to you all!
In the last year i got a bit away from Line due to being busy, but lately i'm getting to it again so i would like to create a new fudanshi/fujoshi group.

If you're interested in it, let me know and drop your Line ID down here so i will contact you as soon as possible. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
18 07,2020
Its very awkward when we dont have anymore topics anymore and its just like, ermm do you have anything to add on? no? then bye??? idk man either that or its 'ahahahahahhah' and the other person gets left on read. PLs teach me how to end convos I dont want to be that dry friend
18 07,2020
Im sorry for posting this here (I have nowhere to go) but I just want someone to cry with me , rant with me, give any thoughts about it, give me something positive vibes, or give me advice please~

My favourite manga, Haikyuu, just ended, its the first time I feel so sad after completing a manga, I know its happy ending and I should not be over reacting like this but it really hurts when I remember all those memories and that feeling I would not anymore wait for any chapters of it

I would love to read any thoughts you have for haikyuu
18 07,2020
Where did it go??? What happened??
Does anyone know??
18 07,2020
it sad that people more like manhwa or manhua rather than manga
no hate but i really wanna enjoy more manga but i saw manhwa everywhere its really different than 4 years ago i miss that time
can someone explain to me why people more like manhwa or manhua rather than manga? i see almost manga have 8 or below rating i feel sad
please dont judge positive answer only
18 07,2020
First they added the annoying captcha at sign-in, and now every time I access the site I'm redirected to an even more annoying captcha that asks to identify images TWICE. I like this site and have been on it for several years, but it's no mistake to say it's going to shit. The only thing that keeps me here at this point are my lists. As soon as I find a way to export them I am gone.
18 07,2020
Everytime me and my sister talk about the past she always mentions the fact that I was a crazy and that I was totally different to who I am now. I've done so many embarrassing and crazy things that I probably don't even remember. R. I. P
18 07,2020
Hiii I just wanna make some friends on line we can talk about anything
18 07,2020
So i transferred to a different school in my district, cause most of my friends (which i later realized where toxic and super annoying) were going to. Then I met a new group of friends (who mostly consisted of popular people) over quarantine that I enjoy hanging out with were going to the school that i was originally gonna go to. So should I transfer back to the school i was originally gonna go to or stay at the other school?
18 07,2020
So mangago is down again and this stuff is actually getting serious. Like what’s going on. Can people stop exposing this website on tiktok and other social media.
If this continues it’ll really be gone. Don’t mess this up for the team bud

Anyways favourite yaoi characters??
17 07,2020
I created an 18+ LGBT friendly Yaoi Discord server where we talk about yaoi, anime, anything really. We have over 20 channels for you to explore where you can simp over characters, get yaoi recommendations, play games, and more! We'd love new friends if you want to join https://discord.gg/gg7gJvD
17 07,2020
Did anyone here take the AP exams back in May? Because I failed one of my tests (I thought I would do well) and I feel so disappointed and just want to talk to someone about the exam. I did get a 5 on the one I thought I'd fail, but that doesn't make me feel better about my other score.
17 07,2020
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FUCK NO! never stick your dick in crazy, it's liable to come off a the root
17 07,2020
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17 07,2020
Join our discord or I’ll kill your grandmother
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17 07,2020
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Anime/Manga Aesthetics, Memes, Manga Panels, Husbandos/Wifus, Phone Wallpapers etc. just gimme anything (▰˘◡˘▰)
17 07,2020

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