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I started because of my bestfriend way back in late 2017 (Sep 2017 I think) I was legally aged to read Manwha/Manga so I decided to read some. What about you guys? And whats your favorite Manwha/Manga?

Lately the topic of relationships has been making me think real good and hard-
I've been in a few relationships in the past, and I've noticed a pattern about my relationships that bothered me enough to make me question why I even decided to get into those relationships. The pattern that I noticed is that I was always attracted to people who had what I lacked, personality wise, and as I started to think about that, I came to the realization that I was attracted to those people because I thought, at the time, that I wouldn't be able to develop, in myself, that quality that the other person had, aka, I didn't have the drive or the self confidence to think that I could better myself and be more like the people I admired.
Now I'm more confident and have more drive and know that I can indeed develop good habits, become better and get myself used to things that might make me uncomfortable but that will be beneficial to me, so now, at this point in my life, I have absolutely ZERO wishes to be in a relationship-

It took some time to come to terms with the fact that I wasn't aware of that at that time, and that to me it was "love", and I tried my best at those relationships as the person I was then.

But hey, what do you think? Have you ever noticed weird patterns about what type of people you graviitate to in relationships and why? I think that finding this out about myself was very helpful, so maybe if you question that about yourself, you might learn something new~

So I am a big fan of anime. So recently a question pop in my head. . . . Can you still be in the age 50s and still enjoy anime? So I look it up and I saw some people who said they are in 40s and still watch anime. I am just scared that I am going to grow out of loving anime and yaoi. So I thought I like to hear other opinions on this. By the way I am still a super young teenager( best not to state my age lol) and in high school.

Can somebody please name some yaoi that doesn't romanticize r*pe? Those kinds of story can be super triggering... I would truly just appreciate a nice wholesome story. I've read a few but most stories I've read have some kind of r^pe scene.

Anyways if you could name a few wholesome storie I would really appreciate it.

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Are you the type of person who your friends thought of a fun person who RARELY gets sad and would often come to you to rant and ask advice when in reality, there are times when you can't handle everything at once?
WELL I GOT NEWS FOR YOU
I am like that as well HAHA!
Tbh sometimes find myself really sad but I can't even cry about it. Dry tears I'm telling ya! I'm not that type to be called emotionless but when it comes to being sad for myself, I couldn't really bother to burden other people with how I feel. But the weight of everything really pulls me down and sometimes I overthink whether itll be better to be someone who is more open on beings sad than being the "class clown" all the time...
they often tell me that I'm strong from putting up from a problem I experience when irl I ugly cry by myself and get over it lol.

Do you have times like this as well?
How do you cope with problems quickly?

(In no particular order and spoilers ahead)

1. Miracle in Cell No. 7 - This was the first movie to ever make me ugly cry so hard like I had to bury my face in a pillow so one could hear my bawling. The two main characters were just too pure in my opinion.

2. Banana Fish - I will never forgive how much this series hurt me.

3. Train to Busan - Hands down this is the best zombie/drama film. The final shot of the survivors made it feel like even though they survived, they still pretty much lost almost everything and they just looked so unhappy and dead inside.

4. Grave of the Fireflies - As sad as it was, I think their deaths were for the best. I'd rather see them be released from the sufferings of the world than to live in it and experience more of it. Still, I wish someone could've said them and they would grow into healthy happy adults.

I think there are more but these are what I can remember at the moment.

Hi heiloo im in the mood for some heartbreaksლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Im looking for a manga where the MC and ML doesn’t end up together then they find new ppl and move on or they realize fk relationships im all bout that self love,, as long as they dont end up back together coz i want some realistic romance with some hardships and good quality drama(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
An example for what im looking for is “Cappuccino” which portrays a reality of a relationships ups and downs especially with trust and communication especially the bitterness of falling out of love,, this sht is deep man made me scared of falling in love lmaooo(⌒▽⌒)but who knows,, i only read romantic mangas and have yet to experience love#－.－)
Despite the ratings being low, i would recommend reading it as its not ur typical cliches:))

Idk what’s an overrated anime character that you jut can’t bring yourself to like?

Idk I really don’t get why people like erina from food wars, she just has such a tsunedere and unlikeable attitude. Sure her character développement is good, but she always has a “I’m always right” kinda air to her. Lol u can start an argument if u want. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

What is your first BDSM literature you encounter with? Or is anyone not going to venture and read this? Do you like it or not? What makes you think so?

For me, my first encounter was not even about straight couple stories. I unknowingly read
*****minors please do not read this when you cannot handle blood, needles, non-consensual, etc.***** Hoshi no Yakata (Tori Maia)

What I like about that manga was the emotion, expression and the stories of each characters on there. It made me change my mind about relationships and I suppose that made me accept how weird everyone is? Is that even makes sense?

I'm sure most of you guys introduction to BDSM are from 50 shades, so please be careful and prepare your mind when you want to start reading that story ^^

Just comment a genre you would want to read, and I’ll try to find you one! The more specific it is, the longer it’ll take, but don’t shy away from it if you have a preference.

If I recommend you something you’ve already read, tell me and I’ll try to find a new one. If you can also link a few mangas or books or anything you’ve already read so I can get a preview about what your looking for that’ll be great.

**to note I don’t know how much I’ll get done, but I am a vacationed college student, so I have a lot of free time.

I like it where the seme and uke both are buff. They, like, hook up after sex(realise their feelings). And also with least romance.

I need help finding out the name of this manga. The premise was that the MC died, and she reincarnated into another body. Nobody believes she was the girl that died, and her previous boyfriend doesn’t believe it either. The boyfriend turn kind of like a “bad boy” (hate that term but don’t know what else to call it). This manga was made before (?) the typical reincarnation type mangas.

I remember she also was somewhat pretty before she died, and now that she’s in a new body, she gets bullied by her classmates. I think she had curly hair in the new body but I could be wrong. And before she switched bodies, she talked to angels or something, and that allowed her to transport into another body.

After reading Yaoi/BL mangas for quite some years, I find it a LOT annoying nowadays when I read a manga were the seme is experienced in sex even when he is in his early teens and the uke remains a virgin even if he's past 30-40. Why can't the both of them be experienced or let the uke be the experienced one or better yet make them both virgins(which I prefer more). Idk nowadays I just drop most mangas when an experienced seme and virgin uke pops up but keep on reading only if the story is good. Most of the time, there is no fresh story; a boy meets another boy, sex(with a bare consent) in the first or second meet, they are both in love(?), pretty much the same scenario with different characters and settings.

what are some of the biggest scandals or incidents that has happened in your school/college?

What up suckers, I was just chilling and I realized that lately I've been pretty stressed because of some men around me. Y'know- I think men are cool but the ones around me are just complEte shit and they're kind of giving me a nasty impression.

Since I don't wanna be brainwashed into thinking that "ALl mEn SuCK", please, enlighten me and expose me to a cooler, healthier reality~

Share with me some cool confident, and immune to toxic masculinity male figures y'all admire and tell me why you admire them. (This is more like a request instead of a question but ay) ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Heiloo does anyone know of any manga/manhwa/manhua where the MC ends up with second lead:’)?? I have been in the hunt for a while to repair my broken heart from many rejected second leads（/TДT)/ Istg most of the time the MC always chooses the dood that hurts and rejects them unlike the second lead that has always been there for the MC in the sidelines and IM SO SICK OF IT AAFSKSSJSNAN,, It doesnt hav to be a BXG couple it could be BXB or GXG im welcome to any couples as long as the mc ends up with the second lead (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

The mangas I read with second leads endings are listed below

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1.) Hirunaka no Ryuusei
2.)Tonari no Atashi
3.) Cat Street
Though all of these are shoujo mangas still its very rare for a second lead ending:’)

i highkey wanna get my tongue pierced when i turn 18 but my friend says that her mom ruined her teeth bc of tongue piercings n stuff. so i’m just reconsidering if it’s worth it

pls share ur experience pls

I can’t for the life of me find or remember the name of a manga I’m looking for that I read a while back. It’s a school life shoujo type manga, with a tsundere type female lead and a plain faced, silent, and oblivious male lead. It’s a slow burn and from the start of the manga the girl likes the boy very obviously. The male lead has a large yankee looking friend that is very gentle and sweet and helps the girl.

I think it’s completed, with the male lead becoming a teacher?

If anybody could help me it would make my year. Thank you!

Has anyone else felt extra lonely since quarantine? I've felt so lost (more than usual) but overall I just feel alone. I feel like I have no one. It doesn't quite feel like depression but I feel like I am definitely heading towards it fast.

Anyways, if you can relate how are you coping?

Hello dearies! I know 2020 has been such a tough year for all of us with the coronavirus pandemic causing the entire world to almost come to a complete standstill. Businesses are going bankrupt, no one in their right mind is traveling for leisure, and we’re all basically stuck at home (even going to the grocery is a big deal). Altho ECQs and travel bans are slowly being lifted all over the world, countries that were hit early are starting to undergo a third wave of the virus. This leads us to think, will there come a day when we can safely come out of our houses without a mask on ever again or will this “new normal” stay for good? With that, I’d just like to ask you, how are you taking all this? How are you holding up with the new normal of wearing face masks, social distancing, and all other new restrictions to your daily lives? Share your stories here