• YES HOMO — Actually gay/bi and (mostly) ok with it • NO girly/childish uke — Men are men, regardless of gender(non)-conformity • NO big age gap — ABSOLUTELY NO shotacon • NO normalized/romanticized codependent, manipulative, narcissistic or abusive assholes — ABSOLUTELY NO rape turned "love" • Healthy(ish)/realistic relationships — Problems are portrayed as such, wether or not they're eventually solved • Some switching (It's hard to find TnT)