BL male leads that grind my gears

I don’t want to like this but I do. The angst and drama have me hooked to this manhua. The male lead is definitely a massive dick head but honestly, the amount of groveling that the author has put into his character is satisfying. I love the MC and his newfound coldness towards his “cheating” ex-lover. “Cheating” is used lightly in this situation because they agreed to keep it no-strings attached but seeing the ML’s first love intervene and how the ML did nothing to comfort the MC was upsetting.