Sorry, my rage made me unfair. The duel wasn't really his fault and the kidnaping could even be considered some kind of help since the uke couldn't go back home after losing the duel, but the rape was unnecessary. He could have made the uke love him by other means even more being the caring and noble man he seemed to be.
Maybe it is just me and other think different but I could never love someone that reped me no matter how loving he came to be after. I would always hate and despise him for stealing my freedom to chose.
I agree with your comment. Your don’r force yourself and your love on anybody! You cannot do that. How about show decency, respect and care? How difficult is that?
"I love you!! So I will almost kill, kidnap and rape you. How could you not love me back?"