its rlly not that simple if u think about it
I know......but Its simple!!! If u try to make it simple
what?
I mean Jun can try to make her life simple if she can just divorce her husband
It's already hard enough for a married couple to adopt a kid so just try to imagine how hard it can be for a single wife lol. I'm not even sure if it is possible
but its going to be hard for jun because she loves her husband very much. getting a divorce is not as simple as breaking up. plus there’s a lot of prejudice towards divorces. just imagine how hard it would be for her n her husband after the divorce. they’re going to shame her for gettin
a divorce n she’s already gettin shamed for not havin kids because it’s prejudice against women. it’s very unfair. its really not that simple.
What ur saying make sense!!!
thank u!!!
So if you don’t divorce then what? Live a unhappy marriage where your partner cheats on you? Fck that, I’d rather be single and happy
Also in Jun's case, if she divorced him, how will she support her mum? Marriage connects you to family, that's how it is. I don't mean to make out married couples to be sponging money off each other but that's reality.
Adopting a kid requires a good financial condition. Also, it is strongly believed that a married couple can provide love for children so they are highly possible for adopting a kid. Single women who barely got a job ? No fucking way. Not trying to be mean.
That’s why she needs a full time job. When she gets one, she can move the fuck on from that cheating scum. Never depend on someone financially married or not. If you do, then you’re stuck like FL.
Full time job doesn't mean she have the ability to support her mum. That's the thing. Her husband earns a high wage so he's able. Her support isn't going to come within a few days and her mums expenses are going off the roof.
i was just sayin how hard it will be for her after the divorce. ur literally just saying that on a whim can u please read before u reply to my comment. i get that ur mad but u should try n understand the problem n it would be nice for her to get a divorce if they could work it out but its just SUPER difficult.
THANK U!!!!!
First of all, not mad just putting my thoughts out there. Second of all, how can the FL work things out with her husband when he DOESNT even communicate?? The dude throws a tantrum or walks out when she tries to communicate. Even worse, he goes sees his ex. He talks to her more than his wife, he even got a boner from her like wtf.
I mean do you want to be with someone like that?? I’m sure most of us have been in relationships to know how you want to be treated by your partner. If someone did that to you, are you going to put up with their BS? No because we all deserve better than settle for less. Just because you are married doesn’t mean forever. If you are unhappy, if you don’t get the 1.love 2.respect 3.honesty and 4.communication from your partner, that ain’t a relationship. It takes two to tango
Then start a gofundme account. When there’s a will, there’s a way. My point is there is there’s always more than one answer. When there’s no solution, make one. I know people will be like it’s hard blah blah blah. Dude life is hard for everyone. You can’t control your situation but you can control your actions
hey rn im rlly not talkin bout the relationship im just tryna say how hard their life will be if they try to divorce cuz they will receive prejudice from their family n society just lettin u know n i want u to understand that it’s easier said than done especially comin from a traditional family background.
Thats 100% true but you still have to understand the problem the FL is facing. It's not just her fondness of her husband that's making her hesitate in ending the marriage, there are also other factors such as family. I'm all for her divorcing that dude but I also know that it's hard for the FL because of her circumstances. It's not "simple" at all with just a divorce.
And tbh I understand why she's hesitating. She just found a job- not even a high paying one. Her mum's expenses are mostly from the dude. It's going to take a while to even be able to support her mum. If she's going to take a loan (If she's even able to because of credit rates), there will be even more financial burden on her later on. In this situation, I'll be worried whether my husband will divorce me and still be able to provide support for my mum. There's a will, there's a way? Kinda easier said than done. If I'm her, I'll probably come up with a plan to get all his money before we divorce LOL.
Just divorce him. Get a permanent job and if u really want kids, adopt a kid.