Kudos to the FL

She may be ten years younger, but she's clearly the more mature of the pair. I give her kudos for realizing the real issue here was not necessarily if or how they would have a child, but rather if and how they could work together to overcome that and every other problem life would throw at them.

This was only the first test of their ability to overcome big things TOGETHER. If they couldn't pass this one, they had no business getting married, because starting married life with 3 adoptive babies... their marriage would already be starting off as an up hill climb. They need to be in step.