The tropes I hate the most? What you mentioned tbh.
Try 'New York New York' ! A story that will tug on your heartstrings. (don't worry it has happy ending)
New york New york is one of my fav yaoi of all time and I wouldn't call that a happy ending tbh I cried and screamed and ughhhhhhh
Ogeretsu Tanaka is one of my favorite mangaka atm because her art is just superb. I'm not into feminine uke myself, but neither am I into muscular over-masculine ones, so I think hers are perfect. Her stories are just as amazing. Hideyoshico's stories are great too, and not cliched. There's also Harada, of course, but some of her works are a tad too dark for my liking. Kyuuso wa Cheeseno Yume o Miru will always be one of my favorites. It's a class of its own, imo. Dog Style is pretty original too.
I keep trying new yaoi but most of the stuff I ve been finding is the clishe kinda of yaoi (￣∇￣")(uke looks like a girl, seme super hot,oh god im not gay but my heart is beating, he raped me but i didn t hate it , teacher x student , senpai notice me , i saw him one time 54836 years ago but I can never forget him , my best friend got a gf im so lonely guess i loved him , oh no he saw me do that and niw he s blackmailing me (〜￣△￣)〜 ..... and so on ) so Im looking for recs something original (not supernatural if possible )
Also what overused scenario do you personally hate most in yaoi ??