I wouldn't call them misogyonist, but rather people with very bad judgment.
But yeah, it's pretty messed up that they are putting blame on the slave/prisoner/lady who doesn't want to be there (based on context clues: e.g. when her hand was given to him, it was not extended, it was instead given by someone who help a firm grip on her wrist.) What might happen to her in the bedroom at night is worryingsome.
Honestly, we as the audience get extra context clues, the proablitiy of her even having a slight idea of the fact that the emparor would dig the musicans eyes out is insanely small. All she most likely knows is that she is a prisoner and doesn't have rights.
if y’all are really gonna sit here and blame the girl who’s been trapped in this building for who knows how long for wanting some sort of stimulation, ur a misogynist. she didn’t take the musician’s eyes or request for them to be taken so why are y’all blaming her and not the EMPEROR??