The art is beautiful the characters are interesting but the whole thing feels rushed We do...

FLICKER February 26, 2021 9:40 am

The art is beautiful the characters are interesting but the whole thing feels rushed
We don’t need a sex scene every chapter, it’d have been better to see them have a normal adult conversation about their anxieties/wants/needs then we could’ve had a confession maybe? And not the marry me kind but the « hey i really like you and i want to get to know you and your son better »

That’d have made more sense to me? Why is it that mlm is always portrayed as overly sexual (often times not consensual) with barely any deep connections?

Responses
    Cheollie February 26, 2021 10:24 am

    you should try reading ones with the “shounen ai” tag bcus those are more slow paced and less sex.

    yaoi is mostly just sex, its not about the relationship itself. so that’s why there’s a lot of sex (not consensual sex is like normal thing) and they do ‘adult’ talk, maybe ones but then they straight up have sex again lol

    so yeah.. i just want you to know that yaoi is not just boy x boy, it has a different meaning when it comes to stories

    Cheollie February 26, 2021 10:25 am
    you should try reading ones with the “shounen ai” tag bcus those are more slow paced and less sex. yaoi is mostly just sex, its not about the relationship itself. so that’s why there’s a lot of sex (no... Cheollie

    don’t do adult talk*

    yuki February 26, 2021 10:34 am
    you should try reading ones with the “shounen ai” tag bcus those are more slow paced and less sex. yaoi is mostly just sex, its not about the relationship itself. so that’s why there’s a lot of sex (no... Cheollie

    uhh.. what????there r beautiful yaois without sex scene in every chapters. this one is overly sexual i agree with op

    FLICKER February 26, 2021 10:53 am
    you should try reading ones with the “shounen ai” tag bcus those are more slow paced and less sex. yaoi is mostly just sex, its not about the relationship itself. so that’s why there’s a lot of sex (no... Cheollie

    I read a lot of shonen ai actually hahah but when it comes to yaoi i prefer reading bara (or old yaoi) i think they portray more ‘realistic’ relationships? But i just couldn’t help myself when i saw a buff uke :)

    FLICKER February 26, 2021 10:59 am
    uhh.. what????there r beautiful yaois without sex scene in every chapters. this one is overly sexual i agree with op yuki

    Totally agree! Mangakas like Scarlet Beriko, mofumofu edako etc. have some of the sweetest stories

    Cheollie February 26, 2021 12:10 pm
    uhh.. what????there r beautiful yaois without sex scene in every chapters. this one is overly sexual i agree with op yuki

    i know, but yaoi is mostly about sex. so i just didn’t understand why people complain when yaoi is meant to be like that.

    Cheollie February 26, 2021 12:14 pm
    I read a lot of shonen ai actually hahah but when it comes to yaoi i prefer reading bara (or old yaoi) i think they portray more ‘realistic’ relationships? But i just couldn’t help myself when i saw a buf... FLICKER

    same same. gajsjd i felt that, i was like damn who that

    Toma February 26, 2021 5:08 pm
    i know, but yaoi is mostly about sex. so i just didn’t understand why people complain when yaoi is meant to be like that. Cheollie

    yaoi isn't about sex per se. it's about not shying away from showing the sexual aspects in a relationship. but altogether, it's just as much about the plot and characters as other romance genres. the only difference is that sex is part of the story. but it's not the sole focus or purpose just because it's yaoi. yaoi is just erotic literature with male characters, that's it. erotica is still erotica. and erotica is not porn. PORN is about the sex, erotica is about including sex in a story that has character. yaoi is erotica. yaoi hentai is porn. this manga is yaoi, not yaoi hentai.

    Dingo123 February 26, 2021 6:12 pm
    yaoi isn't about sex per se. it's about not shying away from showing the sexual aspects in a relationship. but altogether, it's just as much about the plot and characters as other romance genres. the only diffe... Toma

    You explained it really well

    yuki February 27, 2021 2:52 am
    yaoi isn't about sex per se. it's about not shying away from showing the sexual aspects in a relationship. but altogether, it's just as much about the plot and characters as other romance genres. the only diffe... Toma

    yes! there are so many people i saw in the comments of other yaoi mangas who demand "where r the sex scenes! its yaoi!" like... yaoi as a genre is not only about sex scenes, if u all looking for sex then go to the hentai section .. i know some yaois that are full of sex scenes with horrible plot (like this one) but the good ones arent focused on sex only

    Dingo123 February 27, 2021 11:08 am
    yes! there are so many people i saw in the comments of other yaoi mangas who demand "where r the sex scenes! its yaoi!" like... yaoi as a genre is not only about sex scenes, if u all looking for sex then go to ... yuki

    That's why many people are advocating for people to refer to yaoi/shounen ai as BL instead because apparently those terms are very outdated now and BL is a more broad term.