
Unfortunately, since bl stories (specially yaoi) are written by straight women... Yeah you'll get some things like this always.
Which is also extremely sad... Since calling a guy who takes a dick up his ass a woman or making him the submissive type who only wants the D** in his ass. Or the overly emotional.... Etc etc are the same insults used nowadays to actual gay people.
Heads up, most gay are manly.... Yeah big surprise authors.
Also don't get me started on how the seme usually is the type who rarely sucks the Uke. Even if the seme is originally gay... They somehow still manga to write him as if he was straight
In conclusion: whether you receive the dick or give it... You are a man.
Does it bother anyone else that anytime the uke is in a sexual situation with a “straight” male they’re always compared to women..... I don’t get that