
Well you have some good points but let’s face it. Before reincarnation she was just a girl born in a lower class family and possibly a farmer’s daughter. She couldn’t possibly knew the cruelty and intelligence of the upper social class. Also, she reincarnated in the body of a 15-16 year old girl who has been abused all her life. Her step mom also limited the previous owners studies. This is a girl of 15-16 year old who is just reliving her life again but rich and abusive. If you want realism It would be her having a slow character development as she is finding out herself and knowing the right and bad decisions.
Fl is weak , its not really insufferable to read as much as others , just disappointing that every male character or any character that have been introduced into the storyline generally in this story are used as her shield? Like she doesn't even try they're just conveniently there for her everytime due to plot purposes would like to see her grow stronger for herself and less dependent even if her dependency isn't on purpose and is pushed by the plot. She just seems very incompetent and useless her whole plan is literally her solely relying on others to survive. "Its realistic" ... I mean I guess but in a story filled with magic, and demons etc who's expecting realism? And compared to the other stories of new generation isekai with strong FL's it become hard to read about a FL like this. Like her being weak does nothing its just different.. which doesn't make it good .. "it's a breath of fresh air" no its frustrating and annoying. She can't even talk back to her ugly ass stepsis who's not even a real noble. This probably makes no sense but my little rant