still its their choice. if they dont feel like they can put up with the pain or burden or pregnancy they should feel free to do whatever they want with their own body.
its better than having the child grow up not feeling loved
Shut the fuck up. It's the mothers decision to keep the baby or not, try to say the same thing to a rape victim asshole. Swallow up your fucking pride and get the fuck out of this website.
I don’t think she meant it in a bad way lmao think she meant was that making a big decision on your own must b hard, it’s his body so ofc his body his choice but you can obviously see he was going through a lot in that chapter DUHHHHHHHH
“cant imagine how it must feel” then don’t fucking make an opinion lol. how would you feel if someone raped you and youre forced to take up all this responsibility you never wanted? mothers have the right to choose if they want to keep a child or not. it depends on the kid too. how are you so sure the kid will be thankful for the parent that they were born instead of resenting the parent for putting them up for adoption? give mothers a choice and save one life instead of making two miserable.
Okay I get all of your points and what your saying but that’s not what that person meant she meant she can’t imagine having to give up a baby or wanting to and have second thoughts so bad that you end up tearing up and that was baby not the baby of the girls 1 and come on your taking what that person said out of proportion did you guys have to be so unprofessional while typing she didn’t mean the rape she meant having to give up your baby no matter the reasons why if you can’t afford to take care of your baby financially etc that comment was to the way moms must feel that aren’t sure if they want to have abortion or not.
I think the reader just wanted to express an emotion not judging someone. You don't need to be so salty ! You realy need to chill or try yoga !!!
Don't forget he was in a real emotional storm. He was raped and even if the baby was Kanata's, he was in pain because they weren't very clear about their relationship at this moment. He was alone and in shock. So when Kanata explain him everything, he was relieved and could think about a happy future as a family.
People who asked:
Bruh I understand that Kanata was in pain but the comment they made was irrelevant to that. The manga and trying to encourage people into not getting abortions is a different subject. The bitch literally said, "Do not kill a child just because you don't want them or cannot have them." What the fuck does that mean.
I don't think you guys understand how hard it is to give birth. It's NOT YOUR body so therefore NOT YOUR choice. Keep your stupid statements to yourself. Stop bitching about it.
Preach! YES! EXACTLY
Okay so I didn’t read that whole comment she left... FUCK WHAT U THINK ITS ONLY JELLY BEANS THROW THEM OUT THROW THEM OUT
its a small grape looking thing when its killed it dont even feel pain yet. if i don't want a baby then i'm gonna abort it.
PEOPLE REALLY NEED TO CHILLEE..
There's nothing wrong with she/he said. She/he is PRO LIFE.
Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with "encouraging" people to do good to all that has life.
BUT Like you said, IF THIS IS IRL, at the end of the day the person who carry the baby has to decide what's good for her.
Why are you attacking the person like this for? I don't understand.
Can you not read or can you not understand what they wrote :D. Do you not know how to read? The intention of what they are trying to do is evident.
Example 1: "Please do not abort"
Example 2: "Don't choose the cruel way"
Example 3: Using the word "just because you don't want them"
Example 4: It's depersonalizing the mother :)
I could give many more from that measly and pathetic text...
The thing that they are trying to do is CLEAR AS DAY. What they are doing is wrong. It's that easy, say it with me W R O N G.
It might be hard to make a decision for some people but those people who are against aborting a clump of cells have NO RIGHT to make decisions on someone else's body.
What the hell? What is with the hate I’m getting this for? I didn’t MAKE any decisions. I just gave my opinion on a sensitive topic. I didn’t even MENTION rape! Taking my words and then TWISTING it to your own pleasure, HA! You think I care about people like you? If someone was fucking crying their shits out while trying to abort a child, I wouldn’t just sit there, it’s obvious that it hurts and there’s a small chance they actually don’t want to do it, yet people like y’all would really just let someone do that to themselves? Seriously. Oh “pregnancy fucking hurts” well DUH! It’s fucking having a child in your stomach! I know it fucking hurts! Are you trying to say abortion doesn’t hurt? Ha! How hypocritical. All of you fake bastards telling me that I’m not able to have an opinion can shut themselves up.
And so what? I care about a little life, is that my fault? It’s my fault for having an opinion and it’s my fault taht you guys twisted my words into your own meanings. Seriously, stop being so negative on a stranger. Stop saying for me to not have my own opinions on life. My original post was just to say that there was another option yet people took it as if I was forcing a person to not abort. It’s pitiful how people can only see what they want to see. I’m getting hate for my opinion because they have their own opinion. Hypocritical.
Now that I have talked to all the haters, I want to mention something. I was emotional after seeing that emotional scene and forgot about how some people do get pregnant after they’re raped. And I really didn’t think about that when I wrote that comment at the time. I was simply thinking more of teen pregnancy and such, because it’s something I’m used to seeing instead of the other horrible circumstance (and I’m glad I live in a place it doesn’t happen often as I see it online in other places) and I am completely sorry if you have been in this situation before. I don’t really know what I would’ve done if I was in that position. Personally, I was raised to respect all kinds of life, “jelly bean” or “just a bunch of cells” or not. I don’t have that... mindset on pregnancy that others do. I’m not really use to that kind of community(?) where it’s not only a choice because of teen pregnancy. But the fact that I was attacked for my opinions by people with their own opinions is really hypocritical of them. I would understand if it was someone whose been through it themselves, but instead I’m getting hate about how I don’t know anything from people who also don’t know anything? Please, Like that one person said “No one asked”. I didn’t ask for anyone’s opinion if you can’t even respect mine. But that’s besides the point. I’ve made a mistake, and I’m willing to live up to it but I did not deserve this kind of hate for something that doesn’t hurt anyone, an opinion.
Anyways, thank you for the people who stood up for me, even if you didn’t agree with what I said and being kind about my and your own opinions.
I can read, THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
Depersonalizing? Whoa, you need yoga. You're too invested in this topic..
You might be forgetting that what you point out "clump of cell" is also called LIFE in a another culture or religion. There might be someone out there that's decided to do the abortion but having someone to convince them not to go through it, might be better for them, or might not be, you never know.
POINT IS, THIS IS JUST ONE PERSON'S OPINION. Don't twist it into something else.
Like I said, AT THE END OF THE DAY, the person who goes through the abortion gets to decide. Whatever another person say, DOESN'T MATTER IF THE PERSON DECIDES TO GO THROUGH WITH IT.
YEAH,,, IT'S VERY CLEAR TO ME, CLEAR AS DAY THAT YOU WILL NOT TAKE OPINION OTHER THAN YOURS. Also, apparently, opinions that goes against yours doesn't matter. Yep, clear as day.
I'M NOT GOING TO REPLY TO YOU SO HAVE A NICE LIFE!
YALL PRO LIFE SCUM SOUND HELLA DUMB I CAN KILL THE LITTLE BEING INSIDE OF ME IF I WANT TO, "it well be so grate full that you had it" AND!!? why should we care, its not even alive yet so im sure it wont hold any grudges.
As someone who is not grateful to the person who had me, can confirm lmao
Shut the fuck you you depressed bitch. I ain’t say nothing to you. So what if I have a positive look on life, unlike little shits like you who don’t know how to do anything except be selfish. I NEVER said “ oh so grateful if you have it oh woe is baby” or whatever is going on in your mind. I don’t CARE about you and your ‘pro life’ hating as if you were even a thing. If your depressed, then go kill yourselves and don’t go getting yourself pregnant so you can go abort it just to show how much you hate your life. All you little shits are so fucking annoying. And I said it would be “thankful for being alive”. Obviously you aren’t. Your parents wasted time on you, if you had parent at all. seeing how selfish you are I wouldn’t be surprised if no one ever disciplined you properly.
Omg I cried when he was filling in the abortion papers ( T﹏T ) I cannot imagine how that must feel.
Please don't abort. Do not kill a child just because you don't want them or cannot have them. Please, just wait out the 9 months, stay healthy, and if you give birth to a sweet little darling and still cannot have them, you could always put them up for adoption and live on with your life knowing that there is one child out there who is thankful for being alive. Don't choose the cruel way. I won't even say its the easy way because it isn't easy, but don't fail on that little life. That's all I have to say.