How is it bailing? That's just what the business is just like how people get temporarily transferred or go to conventions.
But he could have offered to let Shingo go with him, and he did. But I think it too late.
Plus there is long distance calls and such.
Shingo is the one who decided to end it. To not try. He decided things were going to fall apart so he might as well be the one to destroy things. It was a way minimize his hurt over the breakup. But instead, he's just numb and depressed and reckless.
well wen you are in a relationship, you don't make this kind of decisions on your own... not something that implies both of them... you can't just simply decide to go 1 or 2 years and for the other party to be ok.
You said it.
If he cared about Shingo, at the very least he would have begged him to go to the States with him.
True, except this is show business.
Isn't it kind of accepted and understood that situations such as this will pop up? That there are such things as not having a choice in doing certain movies/shows because of contracts and obligations?
That's what this feels like. Kagami looks to be pressured to do this by higher ups in his agency and he can't deny it's a good opportunity. Not to mention, if he turned it down...wouldn't he be punished for it?
Shingo understood that as well. It's just that dick is involved and was overly familiar with Kagami and taking away his time. Shingo then started to pull back. He doubted his relationship with Kagami first.
yaeh... that "dick" (wel said btw) is part of the problem here... Kagami should tell that dick to fuck off and to pay more attention to Shingo. As for the job... well everyone has his own prioritys... if your lover is more important then the job... I still belive that showmovies or not he had a choise. He still let that dick to kiss him and spend way to many time with him then he should. In my opinion Kagami is selfish. If my bf decided without me to leave for one year, and with someone i don't trust i will dump his ass for sure.
exacly, this will make anybody feel unsure, not to mention Kagami behavior the lass weeks, and that is going ther with that man. He didnt even talked with him or ask him to come. He didt consider not even a bit Shingo feelings.
I don't know. Maybe it's because I'm from a military family that the situation isn't that big of a deal to me. I mean, it's not like it's combat, things happen and if you want to work it out you can.
The dick is an issue, but it's an unavoidable one. Kagami can't turn it down and that is due to the dick recruiting him for the project.
If they talked things out...it wouldn't be over. But Shingo let his insecurities get to him and Kagami was busy with work and possibly trying to find a way out of the situation when he realized he couldn't. There was too much riding on the project to turn it down. When he realized that and had to make the choice he tried to talking to Shingo about going with him, but Shingo already got himself worked up about the relationship ending and he's too much of a pessimist to try to do anything about it except cut it down.
Agree, they should have had talked. Both of them. As for Shingo he was like that from the beginning, no selfconfidence and unsure. Kagami knew that. But he stared to oped up a little and then that dick appeared. I guess i'm more disappointed and that's why i'm venting my angry at Kagami:)))
I mean, he was all over Shingo at the beginning and in the last chapters he treat him so cold, missing all night, hanging out with that dick (i just don't like him, so i'm badmouthing him) and kind of neglect Shingo.
And Shingo... well we all knew how Shingo is, guess that's why we like him.
I know they will work things out in the end, but i'm still angry:))
Well thanks for indulging me in my crazyness:)) and answering me. <3
Lack of communication is the number one reason relationships fail. Because that in turn causes alienation, lack of support, jealousy, etc.
The boys just need to TALK. Not talk. But TALK about everything they've been hiding, holding back, fearful to bring out, their hopes and fears, EVERYTHING.
Kagami decides to bail on Shingo for a year or more and acts like it's no big deal, but then is somehow annoyed & surprised that Shingo wants to break up with him.
Then he has to announce that he's breaking up with Shingo like Shingo needed his approval to end things.
I also don't buy Kagami explanation about it being Shingo's fault that he can't smell his scent. It sounded like a convenient lie to guilt trip Shingo over something bad Kagami himself has done.