Yess, ppl who are homophobic are very uneducated, there was one time that a man told me he wasn’t homophobic just bc he thought homophobia meant “fear of men” and he said “but I’m not afraid of men”. AND the same freaking man told me “but all I see is that lesbians only tries to be with a woman that looks like a man”
then do they fucking fear a women? okay no tell me wtf will a homosexual do to you that your so fucking afraid. just let them have their life there way bcs they are NOT doing anything related to you unless your involved. i don’t get why does ppl make this one thing called “homosexuality” so complicated and complex when it’s so easy and normal to understand.
When you call them homophobic they try to defend themselves by either way saying about the Bible told them to (they trust a book of thousand of years) or they say that it’s “not normal” “weird”, the same shitty excuses. Idk how that type of ppl can live like that, judging every gay ppl in the world and the worst part is that they mock gay ppl (mlm) by acting feminine, that’s a HUGE stereotype.
In some countries is so normalize the homophobia that when someone comes out either way gets killed (outside or his/her family) or suicides by the pressure that maybe his/her family are so openly homophobics.
the world is so messed up and literally needs to be *properly* educated. and why the hell do they always involve religion like dude it’s THEIR LIFE if u think they’re gonna get punished the why do YOU care you’re not getting punished well are u? so they should literally shut the fuvk up and fuvk off and play with kitties. as a straight person i really feel so frustrated when other people like me does shits like this.
As a closeted bi person, I’ve always been afraid of coming out, specially I’m front of my parents bc they can kick me out, and I can say for experience that getting pushed a religion that you don’t believe or that you don’t like, it’s really tiring. They try to change the way you think by saying they will show you “the right way”. Also if you don’t know if your friends are closeted, you can openly talk about the type of topic and they will feel more comfortable coming out.
i really feel bad for you... i suggest u wait till your 18 and then make a decision or come out that way you’ll be independent and you won’t need to depend on your parents also there will always be many persons who will support you and accept you for who you are:) and you’ll also find a person who you’ll love one day so no worries everything will be alright!
I’m not very good with words but thank you so much for all the comforting words!! :D
I was thinking about coming out little by little (first friends and then family) but I think it’s better if I wait until I’m independent. It cause me a lot of trouble? or time? accepting myself.
i really hate homophobics so much...so many of my friends were homosexual and didn’t tell me bcs they thought just bcs i am straight i will be a homophobic and leave them... why does homophobia even exists in the first place. like why is it so hard to believe that a man can be with a man and a woman can be with another woman there’s nothing more to that. also not just gay and lesbians, bisexuals and ppl with other sexualities are normal as well.also ppl who are homosexual aren’t “uneducated” but ppl who are *homophobic* are “uneducated”.