I wish this had notified me of updates. Left off at chapter 32 and it never notified me after. Anyway. I believe it's wholly possible to love two people at the same time. However, you will always love one more than the other. Its impossible to love equally romantically. Thats why polyamorous relationships rarely work. Also, when you're a teenager in this day and age, everything seems like it will last forever, that your feelings won't change. You're feelings may be real in the moment, but your mind is not done developing, your personality is yet to be solidified. This is why so many adults belittle teen relationships. They don't last and rarely will after high school. Why? Because you have yet to go through one of the biggest changes of your life: freedom. From school, from childhood, from being on a set schedule. You're life goes through an upheaval in a very short period of time after graduation. You have to find a job, decide whether or not college is for you, learn how to be independent, and you lose aot of friendships you thought would last forever because you have to put in effort to maintain them. All of this can be a lot to handle and can really overhaul a person's personality in a very short time period. You also don't really know what you want, or what you want might change in 5 years. High school is a very interesting cage to be let out of. Not everyone manages it well, but I guarantee you, everyone changes after it. If you have a relationship and you want it to last, make sure you grow and change together. And don't get married young. The male personality is not cemented until they're about 25 and women don't have most of their personalities sorted out until they're 21, but still might have some kinks to work out. Mostly, though, dont feel as though you have to make all of your decisions now. Marrying someone when you don't have a clear picture of your future or the path you want ro take is not smart, even if you go into it not planning on divorcing (no one ever does). Forever is a long, long time when you've lost your way.
I wish this had notified me of updates. Left off at chapter 32 and it never notified me after.
Anyway. I believe it's wholly possible to love two people at the same time. However, you will always love one more than the other. Its impossible to love equally romantically. Thats why polyamorous relationships rarely work. Also, when you're a teenager in this day and age, everything seems like it will last forever, that your feelings won't change. You're feelings may be real in the moment, but your mind is not done developing, your personality is yet to be solidified. This is why so many adults belittle teen relationships. They don't last and rarely will after high school. Why? Because you have yet to go through one of the biggest changes of your life: freedom. From school, from childhood, from being on a set schedule. You're life goes through an upheaval in a very short period of time after graduation. You have to find a job, decide whether or not college is for you, learn how to be independent, and you lose aot of friendships you thought would last forever because you have to put in effort to maintain them. All of this can be a lot to handle and can really overhaul a person's personality in a very short time period. You also don't really know what you want, or what you want might change in 5 years. High school is a very interesting cage to be let out of. Not everyone manages it well, but I guarantee you, everyone changes after it. If you have a relationship and you want it to last, make sure you grow and change together. And don't get married young. The male personality is not cemented until they're about 25 and women don't have most of their personalities sorted out until they're 21, but still might have some kinks to work out. Mostly, though, dont feel as though you have to make all of your decisions now. Marrying someone when you don't have a clear picture of your future or the path you want ro take is not smart, even if you go into it not planning on divorcing (no one ever does). Forever is a long, long time when you've lost your way.