Yeah that too. I understand how he feels but he could’ve at least explained a bit, that’s why his relationships aren’t stable. Communication is important but that’s all up to the parties.
A lot of people CANT explain it though. He doesn’t really owe anything to anybody. He explained the best he could and decided to walk away bc that was what he thought was best for him. It’s the way life works.
They can explain if they tried, I know he has a mental illness but cutting things off was too quick in my perspective anyways. He could’ve just gotten mad and left without saying “let’s stop this”, but if he means to stop being sex partners, then I agree with him. It’ll only damage both of them if they continued.
He did explain it though, even if it was just a little bit. Mental illness’ hold people back from properly expressing themselves most times. I can see he’s struggling with it and he hates it, but it’s just the way it is. It’s obvious that they’ll both get together in the end anyways. Sometimes it’s best for these things to happen so that people realizes what they’ve lost.
Also I just realized. How was Yohan going to know Jihyun didn’t want him to go to his workplace when Jihyun never said anything about not visiting him at his workplace? I wish Jihyun would explain and not just leave so quickly.
If I wasn’t a reader and was Yohan in that situation, I would be hella lost considering how naive Yohan is. It’s not really nice to just walk off after saying what you want and not listening to what seme has to say, and then assuming he’s just like your last ex.
Jihyun really needs therapy otherwise he won’t have any friendships or relationships stabilized. I’m being genuine on this, not trying to be rude at all.
I hope he gets therapy before going into a relationship with Yohan or friendships, though I highly doubt the author will care enough to get therapy for Jihyun. I sometimes don’t get why authors have mental illness for their character but never really put in where they get actual help and therapy? Sometimes author just forget mental illness doesn’t exist and immediately jumps to make out session in BL. I’ve seen it happen a lot.
You’ve got to understand they literally just met. They haven’t known each other AT ALL, so that means Jihyun doesn’t owe anything to Yohan. Ofc there’s gonna be a lot of unsaid things bc they haven’t had the proper time to actually get to know one another. You’re talking as if Jihyun is the only one doing things without actually telling the other. It seems to me that there is also something wrong with Yohan. It’s hard for him to speak up and say the things that are on his mind, JUST like Jihyun. It’s normal, they’ll get there when they can. Relationships aren’t supposed to be rushed, they aren’t supposed to be perfect. It is what it is. I also have no say in what authors choose to create, sometimes it isn’t right, but there’s not much any of us can do.
Okay they met but not JUST met, they literally agreed to become sex partners. Obviously Jihyun doesn’t owe anything to Yohan but as a decent human being, the least you can do is explain why you’re cutting things off. It just seemed off leaving him hanging like that. I get he has a mental illness but explaining isn’t impossible.
Jihyun isn’t in the complete fault whatsoever but ending things was a bit too much considering Yohan didn’t know anything as they JUST MET like you said and probably wanted to get to know Jihyun better, but of course Jihyun is pushing Yohan away so how can they know each other?
Also Jihyun can do whatever of course, I have no rights to say whatever for him. Whatever consequences happens isn’t on me.
And if he really wants to end everything, let Yohan fully understand and cut things off for good.
i feel like he should at least explain things, it was kinda of a bitch move like i get that you have a mental illness but you can’t say you have a mental illness then leave