im interested in bdsm, can you show me reliable sources so i can get more information? i have no experience whatsoever so id like your help (⌒▽⌒)
There’s a youtuber who posts very informative and educational videos about every aspect of BDSM. Evie Lupine. Super recommend
It's textbook, really. I knew what role I wanted and googled away. I established myself in a bar or two and pick up men and women there. I don't do apps, it's dangerous nowadays. At least with bars you can befriend the bartenders and staff so they can keep you safe.
Yeah. Just google and youtube.
The figuring out your role is the fun part. I tried being a sub multiple times. I switch roles whenever I want a change of pace and want someone rough. Most sub males are virgins, so.. it's hard to get into the role..
GOD I'M ╮(￣▽￣)╭ RN!
I like it. I like the premise. The whole point of BDSM is dominating and submitting. The not knowing about what your partner is thinking, feeling, and will be doing is the thrill of the play.
HOWEVER! Our uke can read minds. In this story he can read his dom's mind.. and for the uke himself, it's thrilling whether or not he knows what the seme wants.
I love it. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I'm a girl. And a light dom. I like controlling my partners in bed. I made one cried once because he wanted to kiss me and I told him no.. and he fucking cried. Well.. me slapping him might have had something to do with him crying. Just remembering it sends shivers down my spine it's making me excited.
DAMNED THIS PANDEMIC.
The world of BDSM is not for the faint of heart.
Be careful. It can be addictive, but if you don't know what you're doing it can be a traumatic thing. For both of you. I have dom friends that pierce women's clits. The farthest I've gone is using a shock collar. And even that is messed up.